[心情] 心繫前女友,我該怎麼辦?
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小弟今年28,前女友32,其實都到了該定的年紀了,
再加上我的事業算小有成就,算是一個人可以養起一個家了,
所以在遇到她時,就有一種衝動要走到最後
在交往期間,我也全心的付出,不論是在任何情形都一樣,
但是在兩個月後,卻發現了最可怕的畜生—前男友,
我認輸了,畢竟他們已經10年的感情了,分開也不到一年
這樣的結果我也只能默默的接受。
但就在我分手,突然間出現一個女孩子,短短的一個禮拜內我們就在一起了,
她對我的付出超多,也真的很愛我,也不太需要我的擔心跟照顧
完全跟EX不一樣!幾乎可以說是天上掉下來的禮物!
但是,我深深地可以感受的到,我的心還是在EX的身上!
可能是當初付出太多,也可能是還沒走出傷痛!
可是心理還是惦記著EX,想著她吃飯了嗎?穿暖了嗎?那個畜生對她好嗎?
想著好多,但都是自己藏在心理面!完全開不了口!
依所有旁觀者來看,都會覺得現任很棒,前任很爛!
自己也知道,但是卻是不知道從何改善起!
我不想傷害現任,她真的是一個很棒的女孩子,可是我卻是騙不了自己的內心
我自己也知道,如果我和她一直這樣走下去,她很可能會是和我走到最後的女孩子.
但總是抱著滿滿的愧疚在和她相處,提分手是傷害她,不提分手也是在傷害她
真的頗兩難的,單純想把事情講出來,至少讓心理舒坦許多……
當然也想聽聽別人的意見和想法,或許可以讓我豁然開朗!
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