[求助] 遲到這件小事
我跟我女友交往3個月,不過發現他有很嚴重的時間概念不足。約一點,我11點叫他起床,結果他一下說1點才出門一下改成一點半,重點是他要到約好的地點大概要快一小時的車程...
後來想說他既然已經出門了(當時一點)我家人便跟他約好吃飯(約兩點),結果變成我們自己去吃。
我認為,要是你會遲到,一開始就要說好時間。不要一下12:30說要出門了,一點再出門一次,一點半再出門一次。這樣會讓我很難抓時間。
很多次了,也溝通過,不過依然無效...不知道版友們有什麼更有效的方法。
而且他只要遲到,就會一個一直嘆氣的死樣子...讓我覺得很無奈,也不知道該不該生氣,甚至是讓我對找他出來這件事很有罪惡感。
想請教一下幾個問題:當他遲到時我該用什麼表情面對他?不高興的臉怕會破壞出去玩的興致;但是又不想讓他認為我不介意。
還有,有什麼方法可以調適自己的心情,與讓他改進呢?他因為自己的遲到也讓自己吃了好多虧了。
小弟真的很愛他也希望他好
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