揮之不去的討厭感消失
(純抒發情緒)
心中一直有種厭惡感,但是無人能說,聽到的人應該會用異樣眼光看我。
從結婚到生孩子都沒讓雙方父母出錢,我跟先生是希望長輩們不要管太多。
雖說懷孕時就打定主意寶寶要送托或保母帶,但是對於兩邊長輩自己主動表示不想帶小孩
覺得難道你們都不愛自己的孫子嗎?(雖然相關性不高,但就是有這種感覺)
先聊聊娘家....
在娘家坐月子時,我媽突然「阿嬤愛」爆發,每次寶寶一哭就衝進來抱,不知道為什麼,
我對於這種行為覺得噁心,我媽在哄小孩我也覺得可以把小孩還我嗎?(是媽媽天性不想
被搶小孩嗎?)
按常理,我應該很高興寶寶有阿嬤疼,但在心裡就是覺得,之前在那邊說不要帶小孩,現
在搶著抱的又是誰。雖說,這種言行前後不一的行為很平常,但是我就是很討厭這種感覺
。
再說說婆家....
平時老公跟家裡就像是室友般地生活在同一個空間,我們只會在房間裡活動,寶寶也是跟
我們一起活動,跟阿公阿嬤幾乎沒有互動,偶爾婆婆會說要抱孫,我也覺得很煩。
說說自己....
我覺得不想分攤,就不要要求抱小孩。
這樣想法很怪嗎??
(這種感覺我一直存放在心頭誰也沒說)
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