Re: [寶寶] 大哭勒索?
齁齁 你一定沒有去上課 or 看育兒書
(是看專業人士, 如心理學家/醫師寫的, 不是路邊阿貓阿狗的部落客經驗談)
幾個要點:
1. 4M小孩根本沒有足夠的智力來跟你玩什麼情緒勒索, 這時候還停留在"基本需求"
2. 基本需求不是只有吃喝拉撒, 心理上的安適也是重要的需求: 抱抱 & 愛撫
3. 請注意習得無助這件事, 雖然版上有些媽媽很不屑...認為沒有這麼嚴重
但用理智想想, 如果哭是嬰兒的唯一語言, 她一直跟你講話, 你都不理, 她會想講嗎?
(你一直跟妳老公說話 他只在旁邊看你 你會想繼續說嗎?)
4. 能抱就抱吧 寶寶會走之後 都不給抱了 Q Q
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