[寶寶] 長輩對寶寶的養育方法很堅持
其實是有點抱怨文
目前還在月子中心
下星期要回娘家繼續我的產假
之後上班也將請爸媽繼續帶小孩
但最近卻陸陸續續發現有很多意見上的不同
媽媽提到滿月要剃胎毛
我個人覺得胎毛遲早會自己掉
想要順其自然就好
但媽媽卻非常堅持要剃掉才會長的比較好
在月子中心時買了安撫奶嘴
其實我個人覺得能不要用奶嘴就不要用
但如果奶嘴能滿足她的口慾
偶爾用ㄧ下也無妨
適當的使用並不會有太多副作用
結果我媽大抓狂
說幹嘛要給小孩吃奶嘴
說跟吸毒一樣以後還會暴牙
丟小孩的照片給他們看
他們會突然問很多問題
怎麼看起來眼睛怪怪的會不會有斜視
臉上怎粉刺這麼多
嘴巴怎麼乾乾的是不是要沾點水潤一下
諸如此類的小事真的很多
我爸媽會一直給很多意見
當然我知道他們是出於關心
但有時候我真的覺得很煩
如果不順他們的意就會說我當年也是這樣把你們帶大的
你怎麼寧願相信那些網路寫的不信我之類的
天下無不是的父母
難道我做的決定會故意害我的小孩嗎
我只是選擇了一些我想要走的路
也許跟他們不一樣
但是也沒那麼嚴重吧
我真的希望他們能讓我有自己做決定的空間
我尊重他們的經驗
但是在對孩子無害的情況下
希望他們也能尊重我的選擇
真的好煩
煩到我在考慮是不是該找保姆比較輕鬆了
也比較不會有爭吵
這樣讓我不快樂 又覺得自己很不孝
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