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話要說在前頭
我是個很幸福的女人
很多女人最希望得到的待遇就是婚後可以常回娘家
婚後我根本就是住在娘家
大約有8成日子都是住娘家吧
也從結婚後到現在還沒有回去工作
因為我老公工作性質使然
加上我結婚前幾週就懷孕
所以一直都是住娘家到做完月子
我家在高雄 婆家在新竹
我與老公也有一個在新竹的家
但是那個我們自己的家婚後到現在
我大概只住了三晚吧
我是去年12月初生的
第一次給婆婆幫帶三天是一月中帶回去
第二次是過年這幾天老公叫我跟他去國外玩
孩子就留給我公婆帶 兩次都有一樣的情形
玩回來後我覺得我兒子變了一個樣
變得很容易就哭
一哭哭就是一定要抱他才不哭
一放下他又哭
且我婆婆有一些想法較老派些
她又屬於講不聽的類型
通常晚輩反對她的想法時
她都會認為是晚輩不會想...
比如說 餵寶寶喝她朋友推薦的中藥水 認為這樣才會長漂亮
還有說等寶寶五六個月就要買螃蟹車給他用 我跟她說現在醫生都不建議使用那種車了
她就回說醫生不一定什麼都懂 有些時候她們這些老經驗的比醫生還行
我知道她帶大五個孩子是很有經驗沒錯 但是也不要這樣讓我爆氣嘛..
老公昨晚跟我說希望等孩子半歲之後就至少一個月回新竹一週....
說真的我很害怕 因為我不知道讓我婆婆一個月帶我兒子一次
我兒子會變多難帶 也許是我想太多 或我小心眼吧...
我自己也貪圖方便吧 畢竟在家可以指使媽媽幫忙做東做西
回新竹我那敢叫我婆婆幫東幫西....
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