Re: [氧氣] 我是男的消失
我很喜歡逛這個版,因為這裡跟現實世界是兩個世界
今年已邁向大叔年紀的34歲,因為所處產業的關係,滿多單身女生朋友都找不到對象,年齡從24-35歲都有,隨便算算都有二十來個吧,而這些女生工作都有一定的水準
她們單身的原因很多,但大部分就是工作後生活圈太小,遇到“符合”她們條件的男生相當少
所以關於條件,我覺得每個年齡層不同,大概的狀況是這樣
在24歲左右剛畢業的女生,大多的條件會希望另一半高跟帥居多,然後開始崇拜有點事業的男人,因為這類的男人令她們感覺成熟穩重,又博學有智慧,可以引導他們很多事情,但這類的男人一定都有點年紀,所以大部分都已經結婚,單身的很多是心不定還想玩,所以這是有女生常常不小心變成小三的年紀,也可以說是還可以為了愛情犧牲的年紀
接近30歲的女生,開始會有想成家的念頭,但這時候工作一段時間,經濟能力開始穩定,也開始明白現實的狀況,這時候的女生如果外表還不錯,通常眼光跟條件都達到巔峰,因為她們不需要男生也可以把自己的生活,外表都打理的很好,所以這時候男生的高度,外表,個性,經濟能力,家庭背景,工作職位,收入都會在綜合考量範圍裡面
接近35歲的女生,開始發現完美的男人不存在,加上工作環境,生活圈中相同年紀的男生都結婚了,突然發現連找到年紀差不多的男生可以交往的機會都沒有,開始覺得只要工作穩定,經濟能力還可以,個性適合就好,因為她們缺的是機會
如果男生們要寄信,請先衡量一下自己面對的女生所屬的心境為何,再考量各個女生的需求寄信,可能機會比較大
但是,通常這個版的女生很容易收到很多信,所以可以慢慢刪減男生,照自己的心意挑選,但這樣的狀況也很容易讓女生有錯覺自己的條件在現實中也可以那麼火紅,所以千挑百選的男生在現實中出現後,男生也可能覺得女生與網路有落差而結束
不管是條件好的男生或女生,都會想挑條件不錯的另一半,但常常越級打怪或越級挑選就是不會成功,網路可以包裝,但現實就是一面鏡子,所以男生不用太氣餒寄信的結果,好好打理自己,把工作穩定,生活過好,外表打理整齊,就一定有機會,因為時間對男生比較有利
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