[氧氣] 一封躍入眼簾的回信
前一段時間我曾在板上PO徵友文,從來信中整理出一些規則,給常常寄信卻遲遲沒有下文的歐吐男生們參考
先說說我的徵友文,81年次,160/56中等身材,不瘦。文中希望能有個親密的人常常陪在身邊,像家一樣的歸屬感。為了區別罐頭文,來信請附上最近閱讀的一本閒書,說說它有什麼特色
文章PO了大概60分鐘,共收到112封來信
在讀信時,有些來信會跳入眼簾,有些會被略過,有些回信會讓我直接標注起來,好的來信有一些共同特點
特色1:修改標題
Re:[徵友]牽手走下去
Re:[徵友]牽手走下去
Re:[徵友]牽手走下去
調皮愛吃的天蠍男
Re:[徵友]牽手走下去
Re:[徵友]牽手走下去
…
上面的舉例很清楚了
特色2:附上好的照片
雖然我的文章中沒有放照片,但是在一長串的來信中,沒有附照片的容易被rule out是很現實的。
失敗的照片
1.坐在電腦前用筆電的攝影鏡頭拍的照片,光線暗,眼睛反光,由下往上的角度拍出來效果慘不忍睹
2.跟哥們一起拍的照片,附上:我是右邊數過來第二個(不小心哥們又比你帥)
3.自拍照。自拍照這個東西很玄,很少男生拍的好看,而且臉會看起來超~大。毛細孔一清二楚,這玩意兒只適合有頭髮有妝抓角度有很厲害的女生來拍
簡單照出成功照片
*淺色背景半身照,有請阿信示範
http://imgur.com/x64lkyB
眼神,角度,手勢都可以微調。三個重點:淺色牆面,朋友掌鏡,隨便找個APP自動修圖增加一點曝光和對比
*淺色背景全身照
http://imgur.com/FYhDBgF
簡單的T-shirt/襯衫加長褲,創造小清新的風格。如果不巧肚子圓,衣服要選硬挺一點,軟趴趴又過大的T絕對禁忌
特色3針對文章回應
失敗範例1:啊我最近沒有看閒書哎,就不要假了懶得找
→辛苦懶得找書的你寄信給我了,還是不要麻煩你跟我聊天好了
失敗範例2:我最近看的是股票投資的書哎,對你來說應該不算閒書吧
→你說的對
成功範例1:最近在回味金庸小說,最喜歡碧血劍的男主角,金庸是我青少年時期的最愛
→我也是個標準金庸迷,大喜
成功範例2:最近在複習火影的漫畫
→鼬 <3 <3 <3(恭喜你成功捕獲一隻動漫宅)
成功範例3:我看過的包括挪威的森林、列車上的女孩、深夜食堂…(下略十本)都很喜歡,其中最愛的是挪威的森林裡那種淡淡的憂傷感
→好強的地圖炮,總會有命中
來信中很多優質的男生,不禁感嘆這年代男生難當啊~。希望對歐吐廣大男性同胞有點點幫助
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