Re: [生活] 不管怎麼樣，還是要……

看板wisdom作者katsuoli (katsuo)時間14年前 (2010/01/03 20:56)推噓9(9推 0噓 0→)

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※ 引述《feynchard (心的方向)》之銘言： : 1、人都是邏輯不通、不講道理、只顧自己的。但不管怎樣，還是要愛人。 : 2、你做好事，別人說你是為自己打算。但不管怎樣，還是要做好事。 : 3、你成功以後，會獲得假朋友和真敵人。但不管怎樣，還是要成功。 : 4、你今天所行的善事，明天就會被遺忘。但不管怎樣，還是要行善。 : 5、誠實與坦率待人，常使你受到傷害。但不管怎樣，還是要誠實坦率。 : 6、眼光遠大的人，會被心胸狹隘的小人打擊。但不管怎樣，還是要眼光遠大。 : 7、人都會同情弱者，可是只追隨贏家。但不管怎樣，還是要為弱者奮鬥。 : 8、你多年建立起來的東西，極可能毀於一旦。但不管怎樣，還是要建設。 : 9、別人急需幫助，你幫了忙以後竟然被他們攻擊。但不管怎樣，還是要助人。 : 10、你把最好的自己獻給了世界，卻大大受挫。但不管怎樣，還是要獻上最好的你。這本書，章跟章間還有一些小標，順便附上。 The world doesn't make sense,but you can make sense. -這世界不講道理，但你可以講道理。 If you can find personal meaning without the world's applause,you are free. -如果你不需要這世界給你掌聲，你也能夠找到生活的意義，那麼你就自由了。 Love is the greatest gift that we can give. -愛人，是我們送給別人最佳的禮物。 Love is not about approval or worthiness. -愛不是一件可以用肯不肯定、值不值得來看待的事。 Sometimes people appear to be illogical and unreasonable,when they are simply using a different logic and a different method of reasoning. They may have different worldviews,or different experiences,or see a different set of facts than we do. -有時候，別人看起來毫無道理可言，這時，他們只不過是出於一套與別人不同的邏輯和道理，或者採用了一種不同的世界觀，或者看到了我們沒有看到的事。 People who act on their own selfish ulterior motives commonly accuse others of doing the same thing. -那些常常指責別人做某些事是出於自私動機的人，自己往往才是循私在做事。 You still need to do what is right and good and ture. That is where personal meaning and satisfaction are to be found. -你還是要做你認為正確的、良善的、純正的事–你會從中找到生命的意義與滿足感。 You would not always be the director. You would not always be in the public limelight. You would not always be in a position of influence. -你不會永遠是一級主管、不會永遠在鎂光燈下、不會永遠坐在可以呼風喚雨的位置上。 You should be kind to the people you meet on the way up,because they are the same people you will be seeing again on your way down. -你在得意時所遇到的人，要對他們好一點，因為等你失意的時候，你還會遇到他們。 People who become "successful" learn that they have "personal" friends and "positional" friends. -獲得「成功」的人會慢慢發現，朋友分成「私人」朋友和「局面」朋友兩種。 The people who attack you may be struggling with their unhappiness at the way their own lives have turned out. The attack really isn't about you–it's about them. -那些出手打擊你的人，也許正在為自己生活裡的不愉快而掙扎。他們攻擊你，真的與你無關，卻是與他們自己有關。 If you don't treat them as your enemies,you make it easier for them to someday become your allies and friends. -如果你不把他們當敵人看，那麼將來有一天，你比較有機會使他們跟你站在同一邊，變成你的朋友。 Treat enemies as potential allies and friends. -你要把今日的敵人看作明日可能的朋友。 If you are living authentically generously, you won't worry about whether anybody else knows or remembers. -假如你活得真實而豁達，你就不在乎別人知不知道或記不記得你做過好事。 Some of foundations for you own success were laid by your predecessors. That was their gift to you. -在你所獲得的成功裡面，有一些基礎是前人為你打下的，是他們送你的禮物。 Many of the best things we can do for each other are little things that bring a smile,or lift the spirits,as we go through daily life together. -我們能為彼些所作的最好的事，不過是那些在日常生活裡能讓人揚起微笑、打起精神的小事。 Do good for its own sake. Do good because it is part who you are. -做好事，只是為了你要做好事。做好事，因為這是你之所以為你。 But vulnerability can be good. When you are vulnerable,it is easier conncet with people,get to know them,and learn from them. -容易受傷也可以是好事。你假如容易受傷，你就比較容易與人結交，進一步認識對方，從別人身上學習。 With the suit of armor, you can only grow so much,and then you have to get out of your armor if you want to grow any further. -假如你披戴盔甲，你就只能成長那麼多。如果你想進一步成長，你就得拋開盔甲。 What makes the person a "small person" is simply that he or she sees life in very small terms.A small person does't see very far beyond his own life,his own organization,his own place,and time. -一個人會是「小人」，只因他用非常窄小的角度看待人生。小人的眼界，越不過自己的生活範圍、自己的工作場所、自已的空間與時間。 We have big problems,and we need big solutions. We need people who can see better world beyond the status quo. -我們有很多大問題，需要大的解決方案。我們需要能夠越過現狀，預見美好未來的人。（真希望檯面上的決策者都能看到這句話。） If your big idea is shot down, simply pick it up,dust if off,and get on moving again. -萬一你所懷抱的大想法被人阻截，你就再把它捨起，拍掉它上面所蒙的塵埃，繼續前進。 Not every underdog is right,and not every underdog's issues are important. But some are. -不是所有的弱者所遇到的問題都是對的，也不是所有弱者遇到的問是都是重大的。不過有一些弱者和他們所遇到的問題是值得重視的。 When you look back at the end of your life,you may conclude that fighting for a few underdogs was one of the most meaningful things you ever did. -將來，回顧一生，說不定你會說，幫助過那幾個弱勢者的忙，是你所做最有意義的事。 The joy,the meaning,the satisfaction are in the building. -真是的喜稅、意義和滿足感，在於「建立」的過程。 We had our moment in the time. If it was meaningful,we have reason to greateful. -我們曾經擁有屬於自己的時光，只要那是有意義的時光，我們就可以覺得感激。 Of course,it is gratifying when what you have built lasts far into the future. But don't fogo building just because it may not last. -假如你所建立的事物能夠永存於未來，那當然讓人得意。但別因它可能無法長久就不願意建立。 Knowing when we need help,and knowing where to find it,are basic to our survival and happiness. -懂得何時可以向別人求助，以及應該向誰求助，是我們求得生存和獲得快樂的基本能力。 We need to help others in ways that support their dignity and preserve their options. -我們在幫助他人時，要維護他人的尊嚴，為他們保留餘地。 If you aren't giving your best,you aren't who you are supposed to be. -假如你不盡全力付出，你將會付出更高的代價。因為–你就不是你了。 If you're not giving the world your best,what would are you saving it for? -假如你不把最好的自己呈現給這個世界，你打算對哪個世界盡力？ When you help people in both big and little ways, you know that you are not living in vain. -當你用或大或小的方式幫助了別人，你會知道你沒有白活。 Nothing is more important than what happens to the children. -發生在孩子身上的事，是最重要的事。《The Paradoxical Commandments》 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 123.192.5.251

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