Re: 出國念書~女朋友怎麼辨?
天啊~我最近也在煩惱這問題...頭痛死了!!
我跟我男朋友交往一年多,我目前碩二要畢業了,計劃出國讀博班
我對於外國生活沒有任何嚮往,純粹需要國外博士文憑當做回國找教職的基本門檻
不然是連個機會也沒有= =
我個人很確定未來想在大學教書,所以去國外唸博士就變成非做不可的事
我學術能力應該還算OK (指導教授形容我是唸得起學術界的 那應該就是吧...)
我男友不是讀書的料 要出國讀書不太可能
他說他想跟我一起去 但是博士唸個四五年 沒事做會很無聊
(他也不是那種會自己找事情做的人)
但是如果遠距離 那四五年太久 他說不知道未來會如何
我就說人生總不可能完全沒有離開的時候吧...
不要提出國了 很多南部孩子來唸台大要省交通費也不能常常回家
可能一唸就是四年六年待在台大 人家也沒唉一聲
但我男友就一直覺得五年很久..............
目前他是有點被說服會等我回來 就用工作來麻痺自己XD (他說的)
我是有說如果不願意等我回國 那就出國前先分手
他又不要 (其實我也覺得沒必要 因為人生這麼長!! 怎麼可能沒有離開的時候
難道每離開一次就換一個? 那感情還有價值嗎...)
啊~ 我好煩惱....
天啊~
有時候我都會覺得他很笨之類的 不過又會覺得笨不是他的錯...
即使他很優秀 兩人一起出國唸書 那也不能保證什麼吧...
所以這就是純粹的感情考驗嗎!
> < 不喜歡這種很不確定的感覺
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