[困擾] 瘦也是種人身攻擊
原po是女生,身高166cm,體重43-45kg間游走
瘦是本來的體質,食量可以說是少量多餐
正餐也許只能吃正常一份的量(一碗或是套餐一份),但過一陣子又嘴饞想吃東西
很少運動,身材又剛好是扁身
所以永遠都會被嫌太瘦!
如果是第一次見面的人說我都只會淡淡回應就是吃不胖
但是常發生常相處的人(尤其同為女性同胞者)
就會很愛說"妳這麼瘦還穿這樣更瘦" "你腿(或手)太細了啦"
我覺得很煩,因為要熟不熟的人最愛這樣
熟的人都知道我不喜歡被說瘦!
我覺得好不公平~一直被說"瘦"也是人身攻擊啊
就等同於在嫌棄你的身材有多不完美一樣
我認為根本不是讚美,而是帶有種"也太不健康了吧"的形容
多數人在說的同時從來不會考慮傷到瘦子的心靈
我認為這很矛盾,既羨慕瘦子吃不胖又要嫌人家瘦得不好看?
我開始會慎選能穿的衣服
舉凡露出太多手臂跟大腿的衣服,我都盡量不穿
(所以跟胖子有何差別?原諒我實在很不喜歡胖跟瘦這些強化人身材的區分)
我想我應該是要積極的改善飲食跟運動才對
因為太常被講而導致我深深地懷疑自己有多麼不健康><
我真的覺得被說瘦很困擾耶!有人有比較好的回應方式嗎?
ps我發現比起來男生比較不會嫌棄女生太瘦!至少不會一直講一直講
頂多會說多吃點(莫非是因為比起身材,臉蛋更重要?)
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