是否同意記者抄文:NO
肚子裡有個六個月的寶寶
其實兩個人早就把彼此視為終身對象
不過因為男方家裡長輩過世,一年內不能辦婚宴
所以也沒有很急著要結婚,但也沒有刻意避孕
雖然說驗到有寶寶的那天我有點傻眼
但也不能說完全是個意外
所以我們的決定是找一天喜歡的日子登記
好好把孩子生下來,明年年底再辦婚宴
不過,驗到的隔天我就跟他說我想要一個求婚
因為我不想覺得是因為有寶寶才開啟婚姻這條路
雖然寶寶是關鍵,但我還是希望有個求婚的動作
我也知道求婚並不會是婚姻的保障
求婚時的承諾也不會有什麼保護婚姻的神奇魔力
可是我還是認為就是因為有了寶寶才更需要求婚
不然我真的都有一種趕鴨子上架的感覺
但是五個月過去了
中間還經過了我的生日
我還是沒有等到一個求婚
連登記那天的對戒在哪裡都還不知道
這段期間我跟他明示暗示很多次
我也跟他說過我沒有要什麼鑽戒
對戒既然奶奶過世前有留了錢在姑姑婆家的銀樓
去那邊挑也很好
他自己也覺得登記那天需要對戒
但是還是什麼動作都沒有
有啦,他上個禮拜跟我說姑姑去了上海......
他對我很好
生活大小事他都把我照顧得很好
只是求婚、戒指還有他一直被原生家庭綁架
我都很難過
不是說我喜歡這些形式上的東西
只是連這些都要三催四請
就覺得他到底有沒有在乎我的感受
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