Re: [心情] 跟婆婆連做表面都沒有意願了…
看板marriage作者suzy30210 (Suzy小米)時間7年前 (2017/06/14 23:21)推噓123(161推 38噓 236→)留言435則, 175人參與討論串2/15 (看更多)
原文吃光光!!
很能理解原PO的處境,我自己是逆媳,也跟公婆家完全處不來
我不覺得很多人家覺得是應該的,或是因為大家都這樣做,所以我就必須跟著做
公公婆婆說要幫我帶小孩,我都一律這樣回
自己的小孩自己教
所以你講你的,我做我的
如果你想要跟小孩玩,那就要照我的規矩走
否則在小孩能夠保護自己之前,我都是他/她的監護人,有保護他/她的責任
不管是心靈上或是生理上,在小孩成年以前,我都有照顧的義務與責任
第二點是,不是結婚了就叫家人好嗎......
我的身分證後面只有登記我先生的名字
並沒有把整個公婆家族都登記上來喔......
嚴格說起來,真的叫做一家人的,是我跟我先生還有我們的小孩
公公婆婆大伯小叔大姑小姑這一串......你們是我先生的家人
但不是我的家人!!!
如果你們堅持結婚之後就是家人
那就比照辦理吧~我們除夕的時候在女生家吃團圓飯,初二的時候去男方家吃飯
大家一年輪一次如何?
或是我們走閏年的概念好了
一年女方家、一年男方家、一年我們自己家、一年各自回原生家
年年不一樣,多新鮮
至於像我這樣,不是家人的人去到公婆家該做多少事情呢?
就比照先生到自己家的狀況一樣吧
你兒子到我爸媽家只會翹腳癱在沙發上滑手機
那我去到公婆家,也就一樣囉~
他來我家也沒叫他洗過碗
那我去當然也不會洗碗
想叫人洗碗? 沒問題,我幫你叫你兒子去洗
畢竟他才是那個讓你幫他洗了三十年碗的人,不是我
我簽的是結婚證書,不是賣身契到你家為奴
也不是簽了一張合約書表示從此我生為X家人 死為X家鬼
尊重是彼此,沒道理公公婆婆就是階級比較高
敬老尊賢,那也得對方有長輩的風範......
原PO不孤獨,逆媳一起為自己爭權利!!
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