[求助] 沒有交集的生活...
是否同意記者抄文: NO
有沒有在座的鄉民也遇到一樣的狀況呢?
就是生活完完全全沒有交集
就是連聊天都不知道能聊什麼這樣
開車開五個小時可以只講個幾句話像是你要尿尿嗎?等等要吃什麼這樣
喜歡的東西不僅不一樣 甚至還有點排斥(個人很討厭看連續劇)
過去會想了解另一半的朋友圈或是生活圈的人
可是呢~另一半不擅長交際 所以能聊的就那幾個人 然後話題就結束了
我試著想找出一些我們婚前(嚴格來說是小孩子出生前)的共同興趣
但這些興趣都隨著小孩子出生後就無法做了 例如兩個人去看電影 騎摩托車兜風
小孩子最近會走路了 所以所有的活動都是以小孩子為主
但兩個人的交集可能只剩下小孩
而且因為小孩也常常吵架 開始發現兩人價值觀不同 對家庭的價值觀 對小孩的價值觀
吵一吵感情也差不多沒了 性生活更不用說
聊天的話題也沒了 有時候相見還會有壓力 感覺隨時會被罵
我們想過可能是小孩的問題
所以我把小孩送回去給爸媽 但某一次小孩被蚊子咬了之後 她就說不要送回去了
要我找保母
我傾向送給我爸媽 給保母帶不如我自己帶還比較好
不太信任其他人帶我的小孩
所以....
請問何解呢?
對了 我們試著溝通過
但溝通的結果總是激起我離婚的慾望= =
補充:小孩子是我帶的
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