[求助] 如何融入婆家
是否同意記者抄文:NO
大家好
我跟先生新婚還不到半年,婚前交往許久,但礙於婚前娘家媽媽比較傳統,
所以我很少會去南部,所以跟婆家人的確不熟,
婚後先生和我一樣在台北工作租房,回婆家南部坐車4-5小時,每兩周回去
公婆對我很好,總跟我說把這裡當自己的家
我也不太需要作什麼家事,但吃完飯後會幫忙收拾洗碗
公公也有說他會把我當女兒 不會要我作東作西
但最近回去時
公公特別私下拉開我跟我說他覺得我無法融入這個家
說我話不多等等
婆家有大姑(已嫁.但工作關係仍住娘家)、小姑、公、婆,但我先生回去也比較少跟家人
互動
所以有時候我想打聽一下他們喜好,先生也不是很清楚
目前我會盡量跟婆家人一起吃飯,看電視(他們的休閒)
但我平常不常看電視,在台北也很愛往外跑,
所以一直待在家真的也不知道要聊什麼,而且我也不是嘴巴甜的人,
如果需要特別聊天想話題等,對我來說是很吃力的事
不知道大家一般會怎麼融入呢?除了聊天之外還有什麼方式呢?謝謝!
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辛苦了,理解你的無力感。
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婆,姑,先生都會划,我看狀況。因為在我們家ㄧ直划是有點沒禮貌。
※ 編輯: rednevalf (140.109.218.160), 04/08/2017 01:02:51
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