Re: [心情] 老公結婚後長期負債
我想請原po先調適自己的身心,
「我現在想法很負面,有時候我會想,要是他不存在,我和我的小孩就不用這麼痛苦了」
這段訊息透露三次,請您為母則強!
1. 平安就是福
2. 事情是找方法解決的
整篇文章看下來是慢性病,沒有急診手術之必要,我建議請先照顧身心再邊謀策事情(這
是很多教戰指標,「先處理心情再處理事情」,別讓您的負面情緒壞了事情...
至於錢財乃身外之物,尤其非您名義貸款,若沒解決方法了、為求自保及女兒,就拍拍屁
股走人了吧....
※ 引述《ScottP820 (Gin)》之銘言:
O否同意記者抄文:O
我們結婚之後因為生小孩等開銷,我老公一直用負債的方式消費(刷信用卡),我每次問他
到
下12萬,接著有一天,他突然告訴我,他又欠了快兩萬的卡債,我真的很崩潰,真的大哭
,
麼痛苦了,相見不如懷念,一直被欺騙,被隱瞞,裡有什麼信任可言,我只是沒人可說,
不
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