[閒聊] 我算是一個及格的老公嗎……
跟老婆認識了一年多,之後結婚至今近4年了,有兩個可愛的兒子~
我跟老婆是婚前就有孩子的,我當下就決定要負責到底,但我當時無工作……自己也不知
道這樣是不是害她,只知道說小生命不能讓他失去,要負責養他,老婆也很任命嫁給我~
婚前有說不能和公婆住一起(她親戚有前車之艦),我也和父母討論最後決定是婚後住一
起一年之後再由我們決定,老婆也妥協了~
因為本身媽媽是個傳統又強勢的婆婆,爸爸算是妻奴……常常我跟爸爸當我老婆與我媽的
夾心餅乾……自己也非常困擾~
本身年薪也才80萬,老婆帶小孩無工作,婆媳不想再出問題決定搬出去租房子~在這之前
我媽還說別租房子,要出錢加蓋裝潢一起住或舊家翻新給你住,但我還是決定搬出來,因
為我知道一旦進去又再度讓我媽掌控了…………我老婆也寧願出來辛苦些
而現在……我年薪80萬幾乎月光族,租房子繳車貸保險及養兩子(都在幼幼班正貴的時期
),老婆賺22k她要負擔學貸和娘家有困難,我選擇不跟他拿,
老婆說雖然沒什麼錢但她過的很輕鬆
很快樂~不用去想婆媳問題……
婆家娘家我很公平~兩邊一個月回去一次,大節日也是輪流~一開始我媽很不爽我這樣但我
很強硬甚至吵架,現在漸漸接受(我不知道她被後抱怨我啥啦,反正沒住一起聽不到),
娘家雖然也是說買房子的事情,我也跟他說實情,住一起省很大但我一定會搞到離婚,請
見諒,她們也接受了……
唉……但我感覺我是不是做錯了,沒房沒啥存款一堆貸款又租房,又不想窩囊跟爸媽住…
…真的是覺得對老婆很抱歉~
其實我這情況很多親戚或朋友都說我很笨,乖乖聽你媽話去接爸工廠淨額少說500萬住家
裡還有一棟房收租,孩子給他們顧不是很好?傻呆……
但他們都不知道被掌控的感覺……像監獄一樣沒說話權沒決定權,買東西要請款被念……
唉
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所以這才是我癥結的地方,搬出去好老公但過的辛苦,還是為了小孩不管老婆跟爸媽住可
以讓孩子有好環境老婆就會閉嘴?您會選哪種
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我剛結婚時沒工作,老婆賺36k她還肯嫁給我暫時住我家忍受我媽……當下就決定我以後
不能讓她受委屈了
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