[心情] 任性而為的婚姻,造就了今天的不幸
幾年前,因為近適婚年齡,就急了,也是厭倦了ㄧ個人的生活,想組家庭了,沒有考慮清楚就跟交往十多年的男友逼婚,但當時剛好公司同意讓我調回南部,南部的工作是我很喜歡很有成就感的工作,我仍然想結婚,男友他原本不同意,是我,ㄧ直給他壓力到最後我們也結婚了,分隔兩地幾年後為了與先生團聚,我調回北部接公司我非常不喜歡的工作,與公婆同住,也有了孩子,但是,我卻非常非常不快樂,因為我離開我在南部最愛的家人,與公婆同住也有非常多的磨擦,這個家沒有溫暖,只有不斷嫌棄我的婆婆,我住在狹窄陰暗的房間裡,痴痴等待先生同意讓我搬出去住
的可能,放棄南部工作的升遷機會,到北部接吃重又毫無升遷機會的工作…
現在回想,ㄧ切都是自找的,當初的任性而為,今天的痛苦吞忍也只是剛好而已,既然無力改變什麼,就只能繼續忍,能怪誰呢?只希望孩子能聽話懂事點,平安快樂的長大,奉勸女生們婚前要三思,要觀察對方家庭,彼此價值觀與未來的想法要ㄧ致,要想清楚自己未來想過的是怎樣的生活,寧缺勿濫,否則,婚姻只會徹底毀掉妳的人生,ㄧ輩子活在痛苦的牢籠裡...
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