[閒聊] 好為難
是否同意記者抄文:NO
最近身旁一些事又讓我本來決定當個傻女人的心又有點動搖了。婚姻是兩方彼此付出沒錯
,要存有感謝珍惜對方的心態沒錯,但,需要變成個愚婦嗎?
A疼老婆,照顧女兒跑第一,家事也勤勞幫忙,5年過去,這陣子懷五個月大二寶的老婆又
發現到他偷吃(上次是結婚前),身為老婆要用什麼心態面對?唸在他之前付出且保證不
再犯,為了孩子再給機會,從此以後裝傻不查手機?我真的看過王寶釵的例子,浪子老了
沒錢了被揭穿了總會回頭。
身為朋友我不知道到底是要勸和還是離?
B偷吃悔改,幫忙接送孩子,老婆感謝到連天都謝了,覺得他犧牲好大沒有自己時間,工
作也不能加班,殊不知,今天還有人跟我抱怨B上班真的很混,他用孩子當成冠冕堂皇的
理由,接完回家玩手機啊!婚姻中感恩很重要但真的沒必要神化對方吧?!他做,但其實
別人做更多嘞~到底是要敲醒他老婆還是讓她繼續在美夢中?
我媽一直要我不要計較,笨一點,凡事睜隻眼閉隻眼,以前的經驗也讓我打算這樣,可是
再怎麼放生,有些事情真的無法忍受。我先生半夜偷爬起來玩線上遊戲(那燈光讓淺眠的
我醒了),重點,我婆婆半夜起來上廁所發現,隔天又是一陣叫罵。我到底是要發火制止
還是繼續蒙頭大睡?
其實都是芝麻小事,但婚姻就是這些芝麻小事拼湊建立起來的啊,最近真的很迷惑該怎麼
走,到底要用精明卻傷腦傷心的態度還是老公是天一切莫問感恩的心態面對呢?
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※ 編輯: airir (223.137.132.252), 11/29/2016 16:17:30
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是啦,是因為看到這兩件所以有感,我還在摸索怎麼找中間點
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我註定了要跟公婆住一起,他在家裡上班且房子大,如果只有兩人我一定放生,他沒睡飽
氣色不好自找的!就是看我婆婆常生氣過意不去,才很為難,但我真的不想為這種事生氣
啊!
※ 編輯: airir (223.137.132.252), 11/29/2016 16:25:38
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