在跟老公還沒結婚前去他家
他媽都對我超好
我媽媽都會跟我說去人家家雖然是客人但還是要幫忙,無論事情大小
於是每次吃飯時我不是幫忙拉椅子就是去拿碗筷
吃完可能就收一下碗筷
他媽會說沒關係她來就好
但我認為只是舉手之勞
而且那時她就會一直跟我說對媳婦會很好,因為她婆婆都欺負她
結果婚後
我還是這樣
結果他媽私底下卻覺得我沒在做事
覺得我不幫忙洗碗
我跟我老公說我很願意啊
可是他說廚房很髒不讓我進去洗
但我是真的沒差
即使在我還沒嫁進去前就說過可以幫忙洗
嫁了也講了好幾次
但老公就是不讓我洗,即使我已經站在洗水槽前也不讓我碰
後來有次小姑(好隊友)line老公說
可以麻煩下次跟大嫂回來請她做個樣子嗎?因為媽又在唸
玩他手機被我看到這訊息我就委屈的哭了
說我又不是不洗,我講好幾次了,你跟你媽都不讓我碰
結果還要這樣說我
我老公就安慰我說是他的問題,下次他媽再這樣會跟她說是他不讓我洗
我說還要等下次?我還要再被唸一次?
然後我大概一個月沒去他家
後來去了,吃完我立馬跑進廚房,他媽就說你別聽他妹亂講,她根本沒講過我,要我待在
客廳就好。但我嘴裡說好卻還是待在廚房陪老公洗碗。(通常是媽煮飯,小孩洗碗。因為
平常是小姑洗所以只要回去都是老公洗)
再後來我一直說想煮菜給大家吃,老公跟他媽一樣說廚房太髒死都不給我煮,可是他媽私
底下又覺得我不煮菜也不洗碗……
然後我就放棄了,想說是你自己不給我用的。
之後我懷孕了,舉家歡喜,什麼事都不讓我做,要我好好休息。當然我也樂得輕鬆,最近
為了結婚他們家要整修廚房,我跟小姑說,等好了我就可以煮菜給你們吃了!
結果她回:對啊~不然我媽又會唸你都沒做事!
我:……
她:她也會唸我啦!
所以我是要怎樣?
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 180.204.3.18
※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/marriage/M.1479351934.A.9A0.html
→
11/17 11:09, , 1F
11/17 11:09, 1F
→
11/17 11:09, , 2F
11/17 11:09, 2F
推
11/17 11:10, , 3F
11/17 11:10, 3F
→
11/17 11:11, , 4F
11/17 11:11, 4F
推
11/17 11:12, , 5F
11/17 11:12, 5F
→
11/17 11:13, , 6F
11/17 11:13, 6F
推
11/17 11:14, , 7F
11/17 11:14, 7F
→
11/17 11:14, , 8F
11/17 11:14, 8F
→
11/17 11:14, , 9F
11/17 11:14, 9F
→
11/17 11:20, , 10F
11/17 11:20, 10F
→
11/17 11:20, , 11F
11/17 11:20, 11F
推
11/17 11:22, , 12F
11/17 11:22, 12F
推
11/17 11:24, , 13F
11/17 11:24, 13F
→
11/17 11:24, , 14F
11/17 11:24, 14F
→
11/17 11:25, , 15F
11/17 11:25, 15F
推
11/17 11:26, , 16F
11/17 11:26, 16F
→
11/17 11:26, , 17F
11/17 11:26, 17F
推
11/17 11:26, , 18F
11/17 11:26, 18F
→
11/17 11:26, , 19F
11/17 11:26, 19F
推
11/17 11:27, , 20F
11/17 11:27, 20F
→
11/17 11:27, , 21F
11/17 11:27, 21F
→
11/17 11:28, , 22F
11/17 11:28, 22F
→
11/17 11:28, , 23F
11/17 11:28, 23F
→
11/17 11:29, , 24F
11/17 11:29, 24F
→
11/17 11:29, , 25F
11/17 11:29, 25F
→
11/17 11:29, , 26F
11/17 11:29, 26F
→
11/17 11:30, , 27F
11/17 11:30, 27F
→
11/17 11:30, , 28F
11/17 11:30, 28F
→
11/17 11:30, , 29F
11/17 11:30, 29F
→
11/17 11:31, , 30F
11/17 11:31, 30F
→
11/17 11:31, , 31F
11/17 11:31, 31F
→
11/17 11:31, , 32F
11/17 11:31, 32F
→
11/17 11:32, , 33F
11/17 11:32, 33F
→
11/17 11:33, , 34F
11/17 11:33, 34F
→
11/17 11:33, , 35F
11/17 11:33, 35F
推
11/17 11:33, , 36F
11/17 11:33, 36F
→
11/17 11:35, , 37F
11/17 11:35, 37F
→
11/17 11:36, , 38F
11/17 11:36, 38F
→
11/17 11:36, , 39F
11/17 11:36, 39F
還有 131 則推文
→
11/17 14:06, , 171F
11/17 14:06, 171F
推
11/17 14:08, , 172F
11/17 14:08, 172F
推
11/17 14:14, , 173F
11/17 14:14, 173F
→
11/17 14:14, , 174F
11/17 14:14, 174F
→
11/17 14:14, , 175F
11/17 14:14, 175F
→
11/17 14:16, , 176F
11/17 14:16, 176F
→
11/17 14:16, , 177F
11/17 14:16, 177F
→
11/17 14:22, , 178F
11/17 14:22, 178F
推
11/17 14:28, , 179F
11/17 14:28, 179F
→
11/17 14:28, , 180F
11/17 14:28, 180F
→
11/17 14:30, , 181F
11/17 14:30, 181F
推
11/17 14:31, , 182F
11/17 14:31, 182F
→
11/17 14:36, , 183F
11/17 14:36, 183F
→
11/17 14:37, , 184F
11/17 14:37, 184F
→
11/17 14:37, , 185F
11/17 14:37, 185F
→
11/17 14:38, , 186F
11/17 14:38, 186F
推
11/17 14:40, , 187F
11/17 14:40, 187F
推
11/17 14:50, , 188F
11/17 14:50, 188F
→
11/17 14:51, , 189F
11/17 14:51, 189F
→
11/17 14:51, , 190F
11/17 14:51, 190F
推
11/17 14:54, , 191F
11/17 14:54, 191F
推
11/17 15:00, , 192F
11/17 15:00, 192F
→
11/17 15:00, , 193F
11/17 15:00, 193F
推
11/17 15:00, , 194F
11/17 15:00, 194F
推
11/17 15:02, , 195F
11/17 15:02, 195F
推
11/17 15:04, , 196F
11/17 15:04, 196F
推
11/17 15:31, , 197F
11/17 15:31, 197F
→
11/17 15:48, , 198F
11/17 15:48, 198F
推
11/17 16:00, , 199F
11/17 16:00, 199F
→
11/17 16:01, , 200F
11/17 16:01, 200F
→
11/17 16:01, , 201F
11/17 16:01, 201F
→
11/17 16:02, , 202F
11/17 16:02, 202F
→
11/17 16:02, , 203F
11/17 16:02, 203F
→
11/17 16:02, , 204F
11/17 16:02, 204F
推
11/17 16:10, , 205F
11/17 16:10, 205F
→
11/17 16:10, , 206F
11/17 16:10, 206F
推
11/17 16:47, , 207F
11/17 16:47, 207F
推
11/17 16:48, , 208F
11/17 16:48, 208F
推
11/17 16:50, , 209F
11/17 16:50, 209F
→
11/17 16:50, , 210F
11/17 16:50, 210F
討論串 (同標題文章)