[求助] 保險業務老公的日常
是否同意記者抄文:YES/NO
如題,想知道版上有沒有老公從事保險業務的工作?
背景如下,交往5年,結婚3個月,懷孕9個月,因為老公家裡在裝修,所以婚後還是住娘
家,兩家同縣市但相距40-50分鐘,老公於距離婆家5分鐘的地方上班,因為不想要上班很
遠,所以各住各的,懷孕到現在大多週末相伴。(但也常常是一週只見一次面的時間)
雖是新婚但沒有新婚感,除了沒有蜜月,老公總是工作到11.12點才回家,平常的聯繫就
是睡前的facetime,並不擔心老公捻花惹草,只是想知道是不是保險業務都是工時這麼長
,雖然可以理解要等客人下班才能去談保險,可是總覺得是不是時間分配得不夠好,應該
多花點時間陪伴懷孕的我,娘家家人也總看我自己一個人處理事情而有所埋怨,總問說怎
麼都沒有來陪伴,我也只能說工作忙,但其實我心裡比誰都希望他多來陪伴,平日就算下
午或傍晚時間有空,也都只是匆匆來家裡停留10-15分鐘,就又匆忙離去。
對我來說,整個孕期到現在都剩一個月了,卻還是感覺很多事情都是自己完成,對於懷孕
的喜悅感鮮少,也擔心往後就如同偽單親般要孤軍奮戰。
老公總說白天時間要處理很多行政庶務,下午要忙著處理理賠與保單,晚上要跑業務談保
險,下了班要寫報告,甚至假日時常也是要去跟客戶收錢或談保險,最長相處的時間大約
就是週五晚上11點到週六早上9點這段時間,但其實除了睡覺也沒什麼時間聊天或溝通,
雖然孕婦很容易疲倦,但都要硬撐著身體等到11點,然後看著他來我家整理睡覺...然後
隔天再送他走。
想知道有沒有也是身為保險業務的老婆,你家也是這樣嗎?
還是工作上面有沒有什麼建議可以節省時間?或者該如何找到平衡點呢?
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