[代Po] 遇到節日該如何安排
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目前我跟老公在新竹工作定居
前不久孩子出生 才三個多月
公婆家在台南
老公的阿公阿嬤家在彰化
我娘家在花蓮
從我跟老公交往開始
他們家族遇到節日 端午節母親節父親節中秋節等
以及阿公阿嬤生日
都是全家族回阿公家一起吃飯
也就是老公的叔叔們也都會帶小孩回去
最近因為孩子剛出生
婆婆幾乎每兩三個禮拜就上來新竹一個禮拜看孫
阿公阿嬤只有出月子中心有來新竹家裡看過
但都沒抱過小孩
我娘家媽媽是在我生孩子住院有來醫院照顧我
以及出月子中心那天也有來
就抱過兩次
因為剛好這周末老公有花蓮的喜酒
想說我難得回娘家
就跟孩子在花蓮住一個禮拜
中秋連假老公禮拜四再來花蓮
禮拜五再帶我們一起回去
禮拜六回阿公家讓阿公阿嬤抱孫
禮拜日休息一天
但婆婆就不高興了
認為中秋連假
我們安排了花蓮 安排了彰化
就是沒有台南 這是什麼情形!
還打給老公問為什麼要回彰化!誰叫他回去的!
事實上 公婆上個禮拜才來新竹一個禮拜啊...
而且因為婆婆跟阿公家的一些人鬧不愉快
現在都不太願意回阿公家
也會阻止我們回阿公家(但我老公沒在管)
然後我們回去婆婆就會很不爽
認為母親節為什麼不是跟自己媽媽過
中秋節為什麼不是跟家人團圓
但其實 只要婆婆願意回去阿公家
就都可以一起團圓慶祝啊!
婆婆以前也有為了
為什麼台南只住兩天 在花蓮住三天
這種事吃醋過
唉...我現在回花蓮都很怕婆婆爆炸
因為花蓮比較遠
我已經很少回娘家了(一年兩三次吧)
到底節日要怎麼安排?
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