Re: [閒聊] 心裡話都會跟另一半說嗎?
我只用男生的角度來看這事.
我雙親健在,所以出門他們都會自己住一間.而且家父生性嚴肅(跟您公公差不多),所以我壓根不想跟他老人家一起出遊.
倒是岳家,因岳父長期在國外工作,所以跟岳母出遊倒也頻繁.老人家嘛一來省錢,二來疼孫三來難免有個病痛需人照料,內人就說岳母出遊都跟我們同住可否?
我是沒甚麼意見,反正也只有幾天忍忍就過.
生活習慣的不一致是否連忍耐幾天都無法的地步?令親習慣不著內衣,是否會故意在您面前露體?亦或您在平常餵奶時他是否故意特別注意您?
如果皆否,是否可給您先生一個更容易照顧父親的空間呢?
提外話,我特別注明這是男生觀點.為何呢?
女生看到男生性器叫性騷擾,男生看見女生器官也叫性騷擾.
我是男生,所以覺得如果真的不是故意的,就以後小心點就好了.
當然女生的角度就不知了.
-----
Sent from JPTT on my LGE LG-H860.
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 223.138.193.41
※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/marriage/M.1470076155.A.78D.html
→
08/02 06:58, , 1F
08/02 06:58, 1F
→
08/02 06:58, , 2F
08/02 06:58, 2F
→
08/02 06:59, , 3F
08/02 06:59, 3F
→
08/02 07:05, , 4F
08/02 07:05, 4F
→
08/02 08:27, , 5F
08/02 08:27, 5F
推
08/02 08:56, , 6F
08/02 08:56, 6F
推
08/02 08:56, , 7F
08/02 08:56, 7F
→
08/02 08:56, , 8F
08/02 08:56, 8F
→
08/02 08:56, , 9F
08/02 08:56, 9F
推
08/02 09:25, , 10F
08/02 09:25, 10F
推
08/02 09:49, , 11F
08/02 09:49, 11F
→
08/02 09:50, , 12F
08/02 09:50, 12F
→
08/02 09:51, , 13F
08/02 09:51, 13F
→
08/02 09:51, , 14F
08/02 09:51, 14F
推
08/02 10:59, , 15F
08/02 10:59, 15F
→
08/02 11:00, , 16F
08/02 11:00, 16F
→
08/02 11:00, , 17F
08/02 11:00, 17F
→
08/02 11:01, , 18F
08/02 11:01, 18F
→
08/02 11:08, , 19F
08/02 11:08, 19F
→
08/02 11:08, , 20F
08/02 11:08, 20F
→
08/02 11:12, , 21F
08/02 11:12, 21F
→
08/02 11:12, , 22F
08/02 11:12, 22F
→
08/02 11:25, , 23F
08/02 11:25, 23F
推
08/02 11:58, , 24F
08/02 11:58, 24F
→
08/02 12:07, , 25F
08/02 12:07, 25F
→
08/02 14:09, , 26F
08/02 14:09, 26F
→
08/02 14:09, , 27F
08/02 14:09, 27F
→
08/02 14:19, , 28F
08/02 14:19, 28F
→
08/02 14:19, , 29F
08/02 14:19, 29F
→
08/02 14:19, , 30F
08/02 14:19, 30F
→
08/02 14:19, , 31F
08/02 14:19, 31F
→
08/02 14:19, , 32F
08/02 14:19, 32F
推
08/02 14:25, , 33F
08/02 14:25, 33F
→
08/02 14:25, , 34F
08/02 14:25, 34F
推
08/02 14:26, , 35F
08/02 14:26, 35F
→
08/02 14:26, , 36F
08/02 14:26, 36F
→
08/02 14:28, , 37F
08/02 14:28, 37F
推
08/02 14:28, , 38F
08/02 14:28, 38F
→
08/02 14:28, , 39F
08/02 14:28, 39F
→
08/02 14:28, , 40F
08/02 14:28, 40F
→
08/02 14:28, , 41F
08/02 14:28, 41F
→
08/02 14:29, , 42F
08/02 14:29, 42F
噓
08/02 14:30, , 43F
08/02 14:30, 43F
→
08/02 14:30, , 44F
08/02 14:30, 44F
→
08/02 14:30, , 45F
08/02 14:30, 45F
→
08/02 14:30, , 46F
08/02 14:30, 46F
→
08/02 14:30, , 47F
08/02 14:30, 47F
→
08/02 14:30, , 48F
08/02 14:30, 48F
推
08/02 14:31, , 49F
08/02 14:31, 49F
→
08/02 14:31, , 50F
08/02 14:31, 50F
→
08/02 14:31, , 51F
08/02 14:31, 51F
→
08/02 14:31, , 52F
08/02 14:31, 52F
→
08/02 14:31, , 53F
08/02 14:31, 53F
→
08/02 14:31, , 54F
08/02 14:31, 54F
→
08/02 14:31, , 55F
08/02 14:31, 55F
→
08/02 14:31, , 56F
08/02 14:31, 56F
→
08/02 14:31, , 57F
08/02 14:31, 57F
→
08/02 14:31, , 58F
08/02 14:31, 58F
→
08/02 14:33, , 59F
08/02 14:33, 59F
這件事的最佳解就是在人合的前提下.老公跟父親順利溝通完成,日後出去玩都訂兩間房.只是您可能在出遊期間得一個人獨立照顧小朋友了.
為甚麼要前提是人合呢?因為老人家的意見之拗啊.
還是以岳母為例,老人家之省出去玩都得跟她說有特優惠價格,如果說要訂兩間房,直接就說我那天跟師姐有約.
餵奶的辛苦其實我大概知道,之前幫內人擠奶就覺得她很辛苦了.
上述有人的推文您也別忽視,我相信這真的是有些男生的看法.這不是不尊重也不是沒同理心,而是心中就真的就是這麼想.
內人是親餵半年(因為她育嬰假就是半年),5個月後逐漸用瓶餵,而在親餵這幾個月內我們還是有陸續出遊,在這個對親餵不是這麼友善的環境中,小朋友肚子餓怎麼辦?我們的做法是找一個比較隱密的地方,盡量遮掩,在小朋友舒服的環境下就餵了.當父親的我只能幫忙搧風遮陽.或是人群來時幫忙檔一下
我相信親餵的您應該也有類似經驗吧.
夫妻嘛,有甚麼事不能說?有說有機會嘍.
推
08/02 14:35, , 60F
08/02 14:35, 60F
推
08/02 14:41, , 61F
08/02 14:41, 61F
→
08/02 14:41, , 62F
08/02 14:41, 62F
→
08/02 14:41, , 63F
08/02 14:41, 63F
→
08/02 14:42, , 64F
08/02 14:42, 64F
推
08/02 14:43, , 65F
08/02 14:43, 65F
噓
08/02 14:45, , 66F
08/02 14:45, 66F
噓
08/02 14:55, , 67F
08/02 14:55, 67F
→
08/02 14:57, , 68F
08/02 14:57, 68F
→
08/02 14:57, , 69F
08/02 14:57, 69F
※ 編輯: hkop123 (223.138.140.143), 08/02/2016 15:39:39
→
08/02 15:45, , 70F
08/02 15:45, 70F
→
08/02 15:45, , 71F
08/02 15:45, 71F
→
08/02 15:45, , 72F
08/02 15:45, 72F
→
08/02 15:46, , 73F
08/02 15:46, 73F
推
08/02 15:49, , 74F
08/02 15:49, 74F
噓
08/02 16:16, , 75F
08/02 16:16, 75F
推
08/02 16:17, , 76F
08/02 16:17, 76F
→
08/02 16:17, , 77F
08/02 16:17, 77F
噓
08/02 16:18, , 78F
08/02 16:18, 78F
推
08/02 17:11, , 79F
08/02 17:11, 79F
推
08/02 17:24, , 80F
08/02 17:24, 80F
→
08/02 17:26, , 81F
08/02 17:26, 81F
噓
08/02 22:02, , 82F
08/02 22:02, 82F
→
08/03 04:06, , 83F
08/03 04:06, 83F
→
08/03 04:06, , 84F
08/03 04:06, 84F
→
08/03 04:06, , 85F
08/03 04:06, 85F
推
08/06 01:16, , 86F
08/06 01:16, 86F
→
08/06 01:16, , 87F
08/06 01:16, 87F
討論串 (同標題文章)