[求助] 惱人的家事分工
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我們夫妻結婚7年,2個小孩各5歲、3歲。雙薪無長輩後援,夫妻薪水相當,住新北,努力
還房貸ing...
因為我公司離家較近,(走路加捷運約30分鐘),先生至公司開車約40分鐘(內湖、下雨
或塞車更久),所以都是我早上送小孩去保母家,晚上也幾乎是我接小孩,然後ㄧ路SOP
流程伺候小孩至上床,再做家事。
但2個月前我大暴走後,先生感受我的疲累,提議分工,他願意ㄧ週接小孩3天。事實上到
目前為止,他平均只有接1-2天,因為提議完他就出差、辦活動..等原因,我還是得去接
小孩。
雖然如此,至少我心理已較輕鬆,知道他工作忙碌,這提議算有誠意、也沒什麼好抱怨的
。
今天輪到他接小孩,我7:30下班打電話問才知道他還在公司,只好手刀衝去保母家,趕8
點前接走。回到家整理ㄧ下髒衣服丟洗衣機、幫小孩刷牙、唸書、洗澡...等SOP忙完也9
點了。老公快9點到家,回家繼續打電腦加班...
我洗澡後再把乾衣服收摺,洗衣機的衣服晾好,10點多,才坐沙發喘口氣,划個手機....
小孩調皮不睡覺,ㄧ直溜出房間,老公趕了2次,最後火了、拿拖鞋用力打小孩屁股3下,
我也不高興了,2個人便吵起來,他說「妳都不管小孩啊!」我指他每次只要管不了,就
發脾氣打小孩。
2人越吵越大聲、開始比誰付出的多,互相大吼大叫,然後無法交集、不想再談結束爭吵
,應該會冷戰個1週吧。
第一次在小孩面前怒吼對方,覺得很糟糕。不知道是不是該把家事列出來,然後每日記錄
,累積一段時間再來討論。我們2個人都認為付出許多、沒被看到,這樣可以有事實,誰
真的做得較多。(我真的覺得我付出比他多!)
唉,為了家事吵架,真的很煩,吵完事情也不會變少....
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