[閒聊] 關於無止盡的拜拜.....
雖然結婚前就知道婆家是很重視拜拜習俗的家庭,還是結婚了,能怪誰是吧?
但我真的忍不住,想發洩一下...
以下是抱怨文....
我婆家真的很愛拜拜,可能因為我原生家庭是無神論吧,幾乎沒在拜拜,家裡也沒有祖先
牌位,對於拜拜這件事情我覺得好麻煩。
首先先說要拜拜的日子:除夕,初一,清明,端午,重陽,中秋,七月半,還有一些日子
,我也不太記得,但大節日是一定要。
我覺得痛苦的地方是,這些日子通常是連假,但我婆婆覺得拜拜非常重要,不太讓我們請
假不回去,而且媳婦一定要回來幫忙,雖然菜色等等她都会規劃好買好,我只要幫忙洗或
是準備煮飯,但難得的假日真的好想睡到自然醒,每次都要拖著小孩一大早回去,好累啊
!
想到我婆婆未來老了或是百年之後,這些事情是我跟我老公要接嗎?(我會不會想太多)就
覺得好累,也很抗拒,這個年代的媳婦,大家都很心肝請願的一起準備拜拜嗎?
平常跟婆婆關係不錯,也對我很好,不太可能直接說:啊…拜拜是你家的事情,自己做。
不想因為這樣黑掉,但真的覺得不公平啊…結婚後老公家的責任變到我身上的感覺,為什
麼不能老公回去處理就好....
哀傷,無奈呀!
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