[求助] 因為婆婆,氣到想離婚
背景說明
男方在北部念博士,女方在中部工作,婆家在南部經營小工廠,原來預計等男方畢業後結
婚,但後來意外懷孕後提前結婚。
目前結婚兩年,也生了第二胎,在做月子中婆婆跟媽媽發生衝突,媽媽想幫我做到40天,
婆家說滿月要回去拜拜,媽媽說自己拜一拜就好了(姐姐也是這樣),婆婆覺得不尊重,娘
家知道後打電話道歉(婆婆不接手機,公公接的),婆婆突然大爆氣並翻舊帳(之前完全沒
說)
事件一:
抱怨女方結婚後一直住在娘家,婆家也不是養不起。
真因:原先提親時公婆說因為男方還在念書,不會強求女方留在身邊,要不要繼續工作由
我決定。
事件二:
坐月子不在婆家坐也沒有跟他商量,孫子剛出生卻不能抱
真因:懷孕時很客氣的說看女方想在哪裡坐月子。因為第一胎在婆家坐月子吃不習慣婆婆
煮的菜,擠母乳放冰箱跑上跑下不方便,而且考慮要好好坐月子把大的留在南部給公婆照
顧,第二胎決定在娘家坐。
事件三:
娘家常去台南坐客(約2-3個月一次),男方和婆婆要招待一群人躲在冷氣房吹冷氣,留公
公在外面工作累的要死
事件四:
生第一胎時有請半年育嬰假,抱怨在婆家不幫忙做家事很懶
一開始婆婆跟我說希望中午和晚上可以煮飯,煮了一個月後因為小叔吃飯時間不一定(睡
到下午)菜都要從中午放到晚上,後來就漸漸不用煮吃便當,而每天要照顧小孩,煮副食
品,洗衣服等。
還有其他零碎的事情就不贅述了...其實之前覺得婆家對我很好,現在知道其實他心裡這
麼想實在很害怕,而男方希望我順著他媽媽,之後也不要工作了(男方也被罵不孝,娶了
媳婦像被招贅一樣),並對我媽媽非常道歉,我想之後兩家人也不會往來了。
因為男方目前還是靠家裡支持沒有收入,也沒有這麼多錢可以搬過去一起生活
請問這樣做錯了嗎?老公不在婆家卻要求我去當乖媳婦,說一套做一套,現在很後悔當初
不應該急著結婚,應該等老公畢業...
請問如果兩家鬧翻要離婚,小孩的監護權會歸誰?
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