[閒聊] 那種婆婆會踩到你的地雷
是否同意記者抄文:YES
在婚姻版最常看到的問題就是婆媳問題,可能是因為老一輩的人認為嫁過來就是我們
家的人有關,當然也有可能是翁婿問題,生活教養不一樣的家庭要住一起本來就會發
生許許多多的磨擦,有些可以忍有些完全就是踩到你(妳)的地雷,所以想看看大家的
會點是在哪?哪種婆婆(公公)或是岳母(岳父)的行為會讓你(妳)受不了直接爆發的
為了方便以下統一用婆婆來稱呼,請勿做不當連想
1.人前人後態度大不同:親朋好友或是老公面前誇妳誇的要命,轉過身後立馬變臉
比翻書還快,跟本懷疑她是不是有精神分裂
2.小孩教養問題:明明是我的小孩,婆婆對教養問題卻老是愛下指導,甚至無視我
我這當媽的存在,老是說老公也是這帶大的還不是頭好壯壯,身心
發育正常,也沒變成十惡不赦的壞蛋
3.大小眼:手心手背都是肉,但是一邊是厚厚的肉另一邊是薄薄的皮,憑什麼大伯小
小叔可以這樣,我老公就比較命苦要比較吃虧,孝親費要分大小,就算了
有爭執了不管對錯「你是做大哥(小弟)要讓他一點」
4.批評我的原生家庭:批評原生家庭的教養問題,隱射原生家庭的父母沒有把你教育
好,說的難聽一點就差沒當你面說你沒有家教,或是你父母怎
麼教你的(SOORY這是我的爆點,聽到可能會當場發飆吧)
5.倚老賣倚:最常掛在嘴邊的就是「我們以前就是這樣做的」「還不是這樣過來的」
或是老是自居長輩,然後我吃過的鹽比你吃過的米還多
6.挑撥離間,造遙生事:關於這點我一直很奇怪,因為這樣做所造成的破壞是波汲到整
個家庭,連自己也繚下去
一時之間簡單的就只能想到這些而已,遇到這些行為,哪些是你(妳)的爆點?
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