[閒聊] 回原生家庭時間分配
家庭狀況:夫妻育有一子 台北工作
雙方父母都在雲林,兩邊車程約25分鐘
回家時間分配:各住一半時間
年假:小年夜 初一太太家(老婆沒有姊妹)
除夕 初二 初三我家(我們初三整天都出去參加朋友聚會)
其餘連續假日只要回雲林一定是各住一半時間
問題:1.老婆覺得回娘家時間太少,覺得我家太髒亂不想住,想過節都住自己家
2.我爸媽大約兩個月會上來台北看孫子(有三個小孩在台北工作)
老婆覺得相較於我爸媽,她跟女兒花太少時間跟自己爸媽相處
我的堅持:1.夫妻本來就是共進退,哪有各自回原生家庭過節的,那幹嘛結婚!?
2. 我家的確因為做生意跟媽媽生活習慣,所以很髒亂,
這不是我能改變的,我盡量把我們睡覺的地方弄舒適,
我的房間應該是家裡最舒適的了
3.一年回家沒幾次,都不能夠忍耐嗎?(懷疑老婆的愛)
4.妳爸媽不願意上來看孫子是我的問題嗎?
我常常鼓勵岳母來台北玩,只要上來台北絕對變成司機一枚,
並排出時間帶出去吃飯散心
(岳母其實時間很多,來台北所有花費也是我們夫妻倆負擔)
疑惑:這樣的安排還不夠周全嗎?
我要求老婆太多嗎?
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 122.147.24.16
※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/marriage/M.1462709849.A.3B1.html
→
05/08 20:20, , 1F
05/08 20:20, 1F
→
05/08 20:20, , 2F
05/08 20:20, 2F
推
05/08 20:21, , 3F
05/08 20:21, 3F
→
05/08 20:21, , 4F
05/08 20:21, 4F
→
05/08 20:21, , 5F
05/08 20:21, 5F
→
05/08 20:22, , 6F
05/08 20:22, 6F
→
05/08 20:22, , 7F
05/08 20:22, 7F
噓
05/08 20:22, , 8F
05/08 20:22, 8F
推
05/08 20:24, , 9F
05/08 20:24, 9F
推
05/08 20:24, , 10F
05/08 20:24, 10F
→
05/08 20:24, , 11F
05/08 20:24, 11F
→
05/08 20:25, , 12F
05/08 20:25, 12F
推
05/08 20:25, , 13F
05/08 20:25, 13F
→
05/08 20:26, , 14F
05/08 20:26, 14F
推
05/08 20:26, , 15F
05/08 20:26, 15F
→
05/08 20:27, , 16F
05/08 20:27, 16F
→
05/08 20:27, , 17F
05/08 20:27, 17F
→
05/08 20:28, , 18F
05/08 20:28, 18F
→
05/08 20:28, , 19F
05/08 20:28, 19F
→
05/08 20:28, , 20F
05/08 20:28, 20F
→
05/08 20:30, , 21F
05/08 20:30, 21F
推
05/08 20:30, , 22F
05/08 20:30, 22F
推
05/08 20:30, , 23F
05/08 20:30, 23F
推
05/08 20:31, , 24F
05/08 20:31, 24F
→
05/08 20:31, , 25F
05/08 20:31, 25F
→
05/08 20:31, , 26F
05/08 20:31, 26F
→
05/08 20:31, , 27F
05/08 20:31, 27F
→
05/08 20:31, , 28F
05/08 20:31, 28F
→
05/08 20:31, , 29F
05/08 20:31, 29F
→
05/08 20:32, , 30F
05/08 20:32, 30F
→
05/08 20:32, , 31F
05/08 20:32, 31F
推
05/08 20:33, , 32F
05/08 20:33, 32F
推
05/08 20:34, , 33F
05/08 20:34, 33F
→
05/08 20:34, , 34F
05/08 20:34, 34F
→
05/08 20:34, , 35F
05/08 20:34, 35F
→
05/08 20:34, , 36F
05/08 20:34, 36F
推
05/08 20:35, , 37F
05/08 20:35, 37F
→
05/08 20:38, , 38F
05/08 20:38, 38F
噓
05/08 20:39, , 39F
05/08 20:39, 39F
還有 193 則推文
→
05/09 01:47, , 233F
05/09 01:47, 233F
→
05/09 02:04, , 234F
05/09 02:04, 234F
→
05/09 02:15, , 235F
05/09 02:15, 235F
→
05/09 02:15, , 236F
05/09 02:15, 236F
→
05/09 06:37, , 237F
05/09 06:37, 237F
→
05/09 06:38, , 238F
05/09 06:38, 238F
推
05/09 07:23, , 239F
05/09 07:23, 239F
→
05/09 07:24, , 240F
05/09 07:24, 240F
→
05/09 07:26, , 241F
05/09 07:26, 241F
噓
05/09 08:35, , 242F
05/09 08:35, 242F
→
05/09 08:35, , 243F
05/09 08:35, 243F
→
05/09 08:39, , 244F
05/09 08:39, 244F
→
05/09 08:39, , 245F
05/09 08:39, 245F
推
05/09 10:00, , 246F
05/09 10:00, 246F
噓
05/09 10:06, , 247F
05/09 10:06, 247F
→
05/09 10:45, , 248F
05/09 10:45, 248F
→
05/09 10:46, , 249F
05/09 10:46, 249F
→
05/09 10:46, , 250F
05/09 10:46, 250F
→
05/09 10:48, , 251F
05/09 10:48, 251F
→
05/09 10:49, , 252F
05/09 10:49, 252F
→
05/09 10:49, , 253F
05/09 10:49, 253F
推
05/09 11:15, , 254F
05/09 11:15, 254F
推
05/09 11:40, , 255F
05/09 11:40, 255F
推
05/09 11:43, , 256F
05/09 11:43, 256F
→
05/09 13:18, , 257F
05/09 13:18, 257F
→
05/09 13:19, , 258F
05/09 13:19, 258F
→
05/09 13:20, , 259F
05/09 13:20, 259F
噓
05/09 14:55, , 260F
05/09 14:55, 260F
→
05/09 14:55, , 261F
05/09 14:55, 261F
推
05/09 15:28, , 262F
05/09 15:28, 262F
→
05/09 15:28, , 263F
05/09 15:28, 263F
→
05/09 15:28, , 264F
05/09 15:28, 264F
推
05/09 17:56, , 265F
05/09 17:56, 265F
→
05/09 17:57, , 266F
05/09 17:57, 266F
推
05/10 15:54, , 267F
05/10 15:54, 267F
推
05/15 21:48, , 268F
05/15 21:48, 268F
噓
04/02 09:11, , 269F
04/02 09:11, 269F
噓
04/02 09:11, , 270F
04/02 09:11, 270F
噓
04/03 08:39, , 271F
04/03 08:39, 271F
→
05/30 22:35, , 272F
05/30 22:35, 272F
討論串 (同標題文章)