[求助] 關於要不要生小孩
跟先生交往不到2年後結婚
到現在結婚剛過1年
結婚前他本來說他沒有要結婚
但後來說不想看到我變老才穿婚紗
所以跟我結婚
婚後他選擇開早餐店
我離職去幫忙
但我們真的不適合一起工作
2人意見不合,常吵架
後來發現懷孕後
過沒多久我們又因為小事大吵
他就說他後悔結婚
我也回娘家考慮離婚的事
後來他又求我回去
但因為我覺得他很容易就為了小事生氣,覺得他很幼稚
現在可能還不適合有小孩
所以選擇拿掉
但其實我是想要小孩的
本來是住他家(家中還有公婆)
但我跟婆婆相處不來
所以他決定要搬出來住
但現在他說他以後不想要有小孩
想只要過2人生活就好
ㄧ來有經濟考量
二來生小孩會沒人顧
(我媽說她不會幫忙顧,婆婆那邊不可能給她顧)
三來無法有休閒活動
我現在已經31歲了
我本來是想在過1年看他的想法會不會成熟穩重一點
再來準備生小孩
但他現在一直說他不要小孩
是他太沒有擔當了嗎?
生小孩後的生活真的很可怕嗎?
是否同意記者抄文:NO
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