Re: [閒聊] 老公突然說想賣重機消失
我最近的心情也很複雜,
雖然發生的事情不太一樣,
但我蠻懂原原po的心情的,
知道老公為了這個家而決定捨棄了些什麼,
心裡既感謝,但又覺得好複雜呀!
肚子裡的小孩再過2個月要出生了,
這個暑假大寶也要上幼稚園了,
所以可預料之後的開銷會比較大。
老公的手錶壞掉了好一陣子,
因為是機械錶維修起來估計要一萬多,
而之前這支錶就老是秀逗,
也沒把握修了之後就一定會好,
所以老公想買新錶想買很久了,
一直有欣賞的錶款,
但因為差不多要兩萬所以總是猶豫,
一直以來我力勸他買,他也捨不得花錢。
上個禮拜有一天,
下班後他說他要去逛逛,
回來後他說他買了一支新錶,
是支G-shock的陽春錶款,
問了他多少錢,答案是1800………
當下我的心情好複雜呀,
從18000的錶,瞬間就降到了1800,
我當時沒說什麼,只說你決定了就好啦!
但我看得出來老公其實有些失落。
隔天他傳了line給我,
其中有段話這麼說的:
『一萬八的夢想與一千八實際的差距,是因為我看了極簡主義(老公最近看的一本書)嗎?
不是!是我突然轉性了嗎?不是!是我想到了妳,妳有想買什麼破萬的東西嗎?沒有!為
了這個家默默付出,知足常樂,我真該好好反省才對!』
看到了line之後,
孕婦的荷爾蒙讓我掉下眼淚來,
一直以來我老公真的很辛苦,
因為是職軍常常不在家,
為了顧及孩子的童年所以我們選擇我全職在家,
等於經濟的擔子都壓在他身上,
平常自己省吃儉用,但對我和女兒卻很大方,
他的慾望很少,有想要的東西都會觀望很久,
所以只要他想要任何東西,
我絕無二話的全力支持他,
我總覺得他值得對自己更好。
所以看了line後,我回了他:
『你決定要買1800的錶讓我的心很複雜,一方面希望你不要去買;一方面又覺得應該要支
持你做的任何決定。還是覺得讓你戴便宜的錶真的好委屈你。於是,我在心裡決定,這支
1800的錶對我而言,只是個中繼站,有一天它會變成一個紀念:紀念我們不只同甘也能共
苦,紀念它是你想到我而決定買下它的。然後,有一天,當我們買下你最喜歡的那支錶時
,這支錶也會成為一個新的紀念:它是我心裡想著你而買下它的。』
後來他回我:
『這個中繼站可能會有點久,據說它可以戴10年不壞!』
哈……
不過我打算明年就偷偷替他買下來,
他傳來的錶的圖我都截好了!!
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