[心情] 7年了!!感覺對婚姻的無奈
是否同意記者抄文:/NO
我是原PO 我是來討拍
在還沒結婚時我是一個很熱情滿有鬼點子的牡羊男生
後來選擇穩定後~~漸漸走路家庭
我的另一半是一個銀行行員的天蠍女
大家都認為天蠍配牡羊是很妙的組合
但或許我認為只要有心應該沒有合不來的
她的工作隨著婚姻漸長慢慢茁壯有企圖心!!
我仍擔任私人企業的小職員!!(好吧我承認我沒野心作大事)
我總覺每一年的結婚日或她的生日!!小孩的生日都是很特別的日子
都會撥出時間陪伴(並想一些鬼點子慶祝.....)
但現在的她!!因工作的選擇!!不得須參加應酬或加班
也因小孩需要媽媽陪伴!!我獨自睡一間房!!到現在快3-4年吧
剛開始我能體諒!!所以盡量在自己爸媽面前都說她的好話
但漸漸的我也感到困惑!!這真的是我想要的婚姻嗎??
然爾也想努力調適她的企圖心跟家庭的穩定度(小孩總不希望看到我們吵架)
然後今天我真的悶到極點
原本我一個月前就安排好今年的結婚7周年的行程與訂的餐廳
她也說OK!!
但今天下午她撥電話說!!那天公司安排的慶功會!!她是名單之一
她要晚上要參加應酬!!...希望再挑另一個時間安排紀念日
當下的我一開始是很悶的!!!又是一次臨時!!!
我冷冷的說!!!!隨妳的意吧!!!妳自己挑好時間再跟我說
我知道我內心牧羊孩子氣又出來
但我很羨慕其他同事的另一半高高興興的樣子慶祝自己的特別的日子
人生努力這樣不就是圖一個簡單理由!!!
我現在很不懂!!!這婚姻我是算成功還是失敗!!!
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