Re: [心情] 可以不生二寶嗎
看到這篇文章,好像也看見自己……
只是我身體比較好,沒有懷孕困難……
先生獨子,第一胎是女的,現在肚子第二胎也是女的,只能說我盡力過了,個人意願也是
生到第二胎而已。
而我先生雖然很想要再生,希望能有男生,但老娘已經很明確說不玩了……肚子是我的,
要承受痛苦,之後要辛苦照顧孩子……我覺得這已經是我的極限。而每個人的極限不同,
不能說阿貓生了兩個,阿狗就應該可以生,所以原po還是要好好評估自己可以承受的範圍
,不要再忽略自己,勇敢為自己發聲。
我這幾天就要迎接寶寶誕生了,剛開始知道性別真的回家躲著哭……我婆婆也是一直暗示
要繼續生,前天才又跟我提第三胎……真的覺得別人的期望是沒完沒了,永無止盡,唯一
解套的是把他人期望和自己切割開來,不要再以他人的期望為己任,而是要多愛自己。
建議原po看《被討厭的勇氣》一書,說不定能幫助妳找到自由和快樂喔!加油!
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這真的好慘……
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除了錢,養育是一輩子的,生了就要好好養,養得健康、善良、不啃老……哈,這可非一
日之事
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是啊!所以不能為生而生,要真心愛孩子再生。放心,我的女兒是我的寶貝,我世界上最
愛的人。
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老公希望能對長輩有個交代,但他沒有勉強我繼續生啦!他覺得我們自己家庭幸福比較重
要,不要為生小孩搞得婚姻家庭破碎……珍惜有的幸福就好。只是老人家的觀念還是很傳
統,這太難改變……
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