[閒聊] 已婚的各位會幫助對方的原生家庭到什麼程
請問如果各位和另一半約好婚後各拿薪水的一半提存共同帳戶支應家用並當作買房育兒基
金 剩餘的薪水雙方都不過問
但有一天對方的家人生病或遇到緊急狀況連另一半剩餘一半的薪水以及自身存款都不夠應
付了
那麼大家會允許另一半動用共同帳戶或每個月存少一點共同基金嗎?(但這可能讓你們小家
庭存不了錢 買不起房子或小孩要辛苦一些)
另外若你的另一半的父母本身經濟條件不佳 沒什麼存款卻早早退休並買房子要你另一半
負擔貸款 所以另一半基本上本來就有1/3薪水要拿回原生家庭 並且未來有背負兩邊房
貸的壓力....
各位會不會覺得 另一半的家人不會想 未來自己付不起突發狀況的龐大開銷卻要你們小家
庭一起去承擔
若真正遇到上述情況時
大家會選擇投入小家庭的資源去救治
還是不管怎樣都堅持共同帳戶及共同基金都不能動?
我知道奉養父母是天經地義
但若父母自身沒做好財務歸畫 並做出超出自己能力負擔的事 還要小孩承擔
另一半真的有義務要幫忙嗎?
謝謝解答!
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