[閒聊] 結婚像搶福袋
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這幾天和老公陷入低潮,不想和他講話,所以來這murmur。
和老公交往19年,結婚5年。會結婚是因為到了關卡,不結婚就分手,另一方面也是想要有小孩了。
老公是2代單傳,他有2個姑姑+3個姊妹。曾經有一度我都有6個婆婆的錯覺。
你説交往19年都不知道會這樣嗎?我很老實説她們是在結婚那一刻,月亮出現然後大變身。(也或許是我駑鈍沒發覺出來)
所以,結婚像搶福袋,一直到拿到打開那一刻你才知道你獲得多少不合身又佔位置,但老闆又跟你說這些是多有價值的好東西(如果你拿到都剛好合用的福袋真是恭喜你)般的刺激。
這幾年為爭得應有的尊重,丟了N次離婚協議書。只因為某一次我回家提及婆家的"教導",我家長輩說:要教什麼?我們把你教得不偷不搶,教得很好啊。
啊哩啊雜説一堆,只能説婚姻的真諦應該是尊重。為了老人家高興我收聘金20,但我拿40還老公的房貸(婚前他買),婚禮蜜月所有開銷我通通分攤。但這樣仍是得抵抗媳婦是下品的傳統觀念,以獲得最基本的尊重。
最後,來個不負責任的結論:姊妹很多的男人不要碰!
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