Re: [閒聊] 夫妻之前該不該擁有對方FB,line等密碼
來個極端控制狂的例子...
我的大陸大嫂擁有我哥的SKYPE, FB, LINE等密碼, 甚至在她自己手機/平板也使用我哥
的帳號.
起初我也不曉得, 只覺得奇怪, 為什麼有時會用簡體字, 口氣也不太一樣.
直到前幾個月他們想要賣台灣的房子(我爸買的,掛在我哥名下,我爸去年過世),
我跟我哥用SKYPE討論可否緩一緩.. 沒想到FB那邊傳來我大嫂寫的訊息...
(我這邊沒任何她自己的LINE, SKYPE, FB)
等真的回台, 突然真的要賣房, 家裡起了糾紛. 那時才大概了解SKYPE也早就被她入侵,
她早在自己手機或公司電腦裡裝了SKYPE來監控我跟我哥的傳訊...
接著他們回台前, 我跟我哥問有無秘密點的通訊方式, 他給了我LINE跟E-MAIL.
他們回去後, 我刪除我哥的FB & SKYPE關係. 只用LINE傳必要訊息.
而最近又發現, 我那大嫂也常登入我哥的LINE, 所以又出現了簡體字回應.
我哥這人個性是無所謂的, 也從不關心弟弟妹妹的, 而甚麼事也被他老婆控制著....
我想也許她還要求不要讓我哥自己回我訊息....
目前因為那大嫂, 我也不跟我哥傳訊... 來了一個大嫂, 失去一個哥....
昨天我問我先生若他也遭遇這狀況會不會也不再跟哥哥聯絡, 他說是.
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所以該不該用對方LINE, FB..等密碼, 我覺得看人的作法, 對方不CARE, 那可以有.
但若是超級控制狂 ... 也不是不該有, 而是對方不得不給你 PASSWORD...
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