Re: [求助] 明明是花我娘家爸爸的錢,為什麼不明
原文吃光
其實爆點就只有你感覺你老公讓你爸好像在眾人面前沒面子而已。
但我覺得,他做的至少看起來沒什麼太大的問題。
在做這個結論之前,有個前提是,他做的決定是為了兩人婚姻為重。
先講你的先生,在全文裡面,並沒有看到你先生有承認
「保母是夫家請的」「蜜月是他出的」,
你老公不承認也不否認,讓其他人去說。
男人的確是會顧一些面子的,但是不是真的很顧面子,
也許只有你自己身為太太才知道。
然後他說,「沒必要解釋」這句話,我覺得保護你的成份更大。
試問一般人聽到,老公要繳一堆費用,薪水就那樣,
老婆不帶小孩在為了念書考博士班時,大家會怎麼想?
再加上如果他去解釋,岳父因為老公沒錢出了保母錢,
大家會怎麼想?
不會有人說你爸很貼心,但會有一堆人說你不為婚姻著想,
還要靠娘家接應才行。
都結婚了,你的重心就是尊榮你的先生,
而不是上婚姻板也要挖洞給他跳吧。
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