[代PO] 先生為了公婆想跟我離婚
※ [本文轉錄自 smart1988 信箱]
跟先生認識三年後結婚三年,育有一子2歲,
夫妻住在台北,公婆住在南部,
小孩出生前,過年過節會回南部,一年約有5次回鄉,家族出遊2次,
我都很配合,沒有甚麼問題,
但小孩出生後,公婆固定每隔兩周要看到孫子,
所以每遇到我們沒有回鄉的時候,他們兩老就會北上住三天,
一開始我很不能習慣,
也有跟先生因為一些事大吵過,
因為公婆會進房整裡桌面折棉被,丟掉我還要的東西,
還有孩子的吃跟教養,他們也很有意見,
雖然先生會幫我,叫他們都要聽我的,最後也是照我的方式做,
但是他們還是會不時的在旁邊念,
後來我想通了,他們來就讓我們夫妻大吵架也不是辦法,
我就學習放空,他們要做甚麼就給他做,
我真的不能接受的事就直接說,不再透過先生,
就是冷淡沒有笑容,也不會主動聊天,
他們主動跟我講話,我會回應,但不多話,
先生認為我這樣態度很差,
說我無法真心接納他爸媽,
覺得我對他爸媽的態度就是能避就避,
他覺得這樣的家庭關係讓他很痛苦,
所以他說我既然那麼討厭他爸媽,那乾脆大家離婚好了,
但我並不想離婚,
我不想讓我小孩沒有爸爸或媽媽,
我沒有逼他跟我爸媽多要好,
為什麼他就規定我一定要真心愛他爸媽,
就因為他覺得他爸媽對我很好,但這個好又不是我想要的,
我雖然不喜歡他們來,但我並沒有阻止他們來,
我就做我自己不行嗎?
這樣就要離婚,讓我真的好討厭公婆。
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※ 轉錄者: smart1988 (61.231.103.90), 08/09/2015 23:47:09
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