Re: [討拍] 心碎的七年之癢
我認為你如果還愛著你的先生
心中還有這個家庭,那妳就不應該質問他、罵他(男人都很愛面子、自尊心高)
小三介入家庭的第一招就是讓對方夫妻失和
妳的反應正落入小三圈套!
妳應該採取相反作法,來贏回外子的心
例如:在他下班回來時給他親密按摩,準備他最喜歡晚餐、或者買套性感內衣給他浪漫晚
上,請求他帶妳和小孩出去遊玩等....
找回當初戀愛的感覺,就算結婚再久,只要用心經營一定可以找回來,畢竟彼此也
有共同甜蜜回憶!
許多男人都說會犯全世界男人都會犯的錯! 這只是藉口,主要是生物本能會驅使他這樣
作!
如果你還要這家庭,妳應該用溫柔口吻對他說:不管你犯什麼錯,這個家永遠是我們的!
增加他內心愧疚感(心理戰)。 也許他只是一時被小三迷惑!
另外,妳也對小三表態,我永遠愛我的外子,一輩子愛著他,永不分離!他在生日送我..
(傳達外子愛妳甚於小三)。我想女性都妒忌心、比較心,之後換小三去質問、罵....
,妳外子可能覺得她煩,之後會疏遠她!
另外,請記得法律是保護正宮,只要不離婚,小三永遠只能活在黑暗中!(我不相信她不
會年老色衰,要是妳不退,她就一直付出時間、青春、金錢、肉體成本,且這成本會
隨時間不斷升高,人是理性自利的,她付出比得到少,她自然會找尋下一個目標了)
請記得妳身邊還有很多資源(朋友、公婆、親人等),他們一定會站妳這邊!
想想中華隊的護國神王大樹也曾外遇過,最後大樹哥也是選擇回到妻子身邊!
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