[心情] 婆婆對我好,我反而有壓力,求解。
新婚婦求各位的建議,謝謝。
我和老公新婚後自己住,和婆家距離車程約三十分鐘。
婆婆是傳統家庭主婦,我則是嫁來南部的新主婦,在幼稚園任職,
個性比較喜歡什麼都自己來。
婆婆人很好,但有點小壓力,可能婆婆的存在對媳婦就是壓力?
1、婆婆很喜歡三不五時傳line,要我去拿她買的食物,水果,我不敢拒絕。
還會line指導我怎麼煮,由於小家庭才兩個人,偶爾才開伙,
但拿回家不煮很怕被發現,老公又不說謊,我只好下班不敢買飯而煮飯。
2、常常要我記得保持身材,多美白,還對我說,小心變胖就是你的地位倍受威脅。
3、跟兒子傳的lime對話很親密,像是老公對他說工作辛苦,婆婆會回傳:媽咪流淚憮甘
,你永遠是媽咪的寶貝兒子,我以你為榮....由於是共用電腦,給我看到我看了內心五味
雜陳...自己去買ㄧ台筆電再也不跟老公共用電腦了...
4什麼事情都會叮嚀我,什麼東西都想教我,會約我去超市,她買牛排,叫我好好看怎麼
跟店員詢問,要學起來。
5常常希望我能辭職照顧好他的兒子和整個家,我則是回應有小孩再說吧...。
其實她人很好,只是我的原生家庭是採用自由放任不理睬的教養,我自由自我習慣了,
來南部後要適應新工作,還要適應她,周遭姊妹聽完都覺得是我不知足,故想問問大家我
該怎麼辦。老公是說再住ㄧ年看看,真的不行就搬回我和他相識的北部。
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