[心情] 婆家養兒防老的觀念深
前天晚上,婆婆買了鱸魚要我們煮給我兒子吃,
我老公因為站著挑魚刺有點不太好用,而且看不清
楚,所以他跪著挑魚刺,我覺得很正常啊,做事我
都覺得自己順手方便就好, 這時候婆婆剛好進來,
她說我老公真的是孝子,還跪著挑魚刺,如果將來我兒子
對爸爸不孝順,那就真的太不值得了!
這話聽起來"好像"很合理??
但我總覺得跟我想法好大不同,我婆婆有很深養兒防老的觀念,
他自己有三個兒子 而且都很乖巧聽他的話,但他私下還是透露
他很怕三個兒子其中會有人不孝順她.......也三不五時提醒我老公
當初我老公早產,身體不好,當時她是多辛苦的照顧我老公....
我的觀念是,生小孩是我們自己的選擇,
生養小孩很辛苦沒錯,但我並不認為自己多偉大,生小孩多多少少
都是滿足自己想生才會生的不是嗎?
照顧年幼的小孩本來就是理所當然父母的責任
我老公已經是非常孝順的人
甚至婆婆會要求我老公盡死去公公的責任去照顧爺爺奶奶
我自己也只有一個獨生子 但我的責任就是教養他長大
將來 他有他的人生 有他想過的生活 我不會黏著她干涉她太多!
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