[討拍] 先生一家人超虔誠..
每逢節日拜拜我ok,初一十五也要去土地公廟拜拜我也接受(而且一次要拜2間)
但每次講到拜拜的事很容易吵起來
我覺得心誠則靈,但他們家凡事講究,
我要是講到有誠意就好,他就會生氣的說 那你乾脆坐在家裡用想的,連拜都不用拜!
常常拜拜的大魚大肉都是吃不完/放久了容易壞 但每次都還是要買齊
(過年那陣一家裡冰箱塞了五隻全雞,因為好幾個節都要拜/都要全雞)
難道祖先/佛祖 就喜歡浪費嗎?
拜完的東西要是全吃的完就算了,但常常得因為拜拜而買超過家裡食用的
或大家不喜歡吃的東西,然後放到壞掉->丟掉
我國中畢業後就一直在外面生活,也習慣了節儉,對自已也很小氣(也看不慣浪費)
就像明天難得2人休假,先生提議要看電影,我馬上上網找優惠,想說是不是看早場比較便宜,
他說送完小孩上學後要先去拜拜,要看下午
我說下午可也可拜,早上比較便宜,
他開始怪我上週日不早點去拜,拖到下午下雨了沒辦法去,明天要是再不去,又要拖1星期,
而且明天下午可能會下雨,那是不是又不用拜了!? 那是不是又要拖到星期六日了!?
我覺得拜拜是一種誠意啊..趕著去拜就一定比較好嗎?
是說超過初一(或十五) 每過一天,心意就會減10%嗎?
然後又開始說我小氣,為了省那幾十塊連拜拜都一直拖..
我實在肚量很小嗎 就是不喜歡他一直說我小氣的事,又怪我拜拜沒誠意..
唉..好好一個放假天,竟然就這樣又冷戰了起來,
心情好差,版上的姐妹 也會遇到這樣狀況嗎?
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