[婚前] 會記帳才叫會持家嗎?
今年底要結婚了,跟男友討論到未來存錢問題,雖然現在有一間公寓,但未來目標是想買
透天(我們住南部鄉下)
我們倆月薪都差不多四萬元,他現在的存錢方式是用手機APP記帳,控管大小的開支,他
說這樣一個月大概剩1.5萬可以存下來。因為他是大哥,所以家裡該給的他一毛都不能少
,也沒人會給他什麼支援。
我呢~因為跟哥哥在外地工作,每月會給媽媽一筆錢,所以有時我比較吃緊的時候,還會
有支援。我的存錢方式是每個月先存兩萬起來,其餘扣掉保險、學貸、給阿罵的生活費…
…最後就是花光光,也不會特別去記帳
問題來了,男友覺得,一定要記帳控管大小支出才能存到錢,所以他希望我記帳來控管兩
人的薪水,但我真的很不想,我不能理解每天記吃飯花多少,買衛生紙花多少的意義何在
……該花的記下來還是花啊~我知道我們不是會有什麼奢侈消費的人,都是那種一件衣服
五百還考慮很久的~所以我覺得沒必要我也不想要記帳
我提出一人一個月拿一萬五出來存,這筆存款基本上是未來買房的,但也會用在一些必要
的大筆花費上,例如買家具、出國旅行、買機車這類的……反正這筆錢是不會拿來買醬油
、衣服、包紅包的……當然這種大筆花費我一定會記下來的壓~(這樣也算有記帳吧~哈~
)
至於日常基本開銷,我提出有帳單的都我來付(因為他常忘記繳被罰錢,我就笑他記帳記
這樣的喔~哈);其他雜七雜八就他付,他愛怎麼記就怎麼記~如果一方吃緊了另一方就支
援,如果兩方都吃緊就先從共同存款融資,下個月要補進去……我真的覺得這樣不錯啊~
有共同的存款,也有分擔共同生活費、也保有雙方一點點金錢的支配性~還是我真的自我
感覺太良好啊…
討論了好幾次,男友還是覺得要記帳,那我就說每月給他一萬五,就由他來記,他想了一
下就答應了……
沒想到我問他:會不會覺得我都不會幫他持家?他竟然說會!……痾……我其實也知道他
工作很忙,也想幫他分擔啊~但他就一直說要記帳,我就真的很不想啊~
所以想請問大家還有沒有更好的理財方法啊?難道只有中樂透一途了嗎?
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