[心情] 婚後與母親同住
因為自己是單親,所以結婚後理所當然接母親與我們夫妻兩同住。婚後卻似乎不可避免的
發生了婆媳問題,老婆是個一板一眼的人,確實在各方面都嚴謹了些,不過大都是我所認
可正確的觀念。而母親老實上說來是個懶惰的人,很多事情都挺隨性的。整天大部分時間
都在床上或沙發上,可能也是年紀越來越大了,身體也沒這麼舒適。母親又太過關心我,
必竟從小相依為命。兩人的衝突常常發生,有時兩人私底下跟我討論時都討論到流淚。而
分別溝通時,跟我老婆說我們要多體諒我母親,結果得到了回應說我是媽寶,跟我母親說
要多體諒我老婆,結果卻說我結婚後變好多,以前都不會跟她說這些,現在甚至還要管她
。表現出來我好像變成妻奴。自己常常工作很忙回到家還要面對這種情況,真的常常很難
調適,但難過只能放在心裡。
這樣情形維持快4年了,最近有考慮到我們夫妻倆跟媽媽分開住,但這樣到底好嗎?希望
有旁觀者可以幫忙我給點建議了。先謝謝大家!
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