[討拍] 結婚後跟誰住呢?
想請問大家結婚後會跟男方家人住,還是女方家人,或兩人自己住呢?
我是新竹人,男友(長孫,台中人)工作在新竹,我們也在這裡認識,男友原本答應婚後
在新竹住,但今天陪他回台中後,家裡人說要給他土地,蓋在家旁邊(他們大家庭一起住
,阿嬤、大伯、二伯),但我是不想去的...一方面我無法煮給大家吃,也無法打理這麼
多人的生活,還有我完全聽不懂台語,但他們家都只說台語...我沒把握住在一起能夠相
處融洽...但是長輩說我男友不回去的話,土地就不分下來,等於他爸分不到土地...我男
友又覺得不回去很不孝,但我們都想留在新竹(男友在新竹月薪約8萬,回台中要重頭開
始),很擔心男友真的要回去住,但我又沒辦法接受而分開...
原本規劃好的未來都被打掉了...感覺怎麼做都不對...好想哭喔...
如果讓你們選,你們會怎麼決定呢...?
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