Re: [求助] 對於圖來來訪親友的態度
我就是本文原po的老婆
今天原po喜孜孜的告訴我他有廣大的民意支持,大家大部份都佔在他那邊
看了本文我要澄清幾點
1,小孩絕對沒有虐待動物的行為
她只有開罐頭餵貓餵狗遛狗
看魚順便丟一點飼料,一切我都在旁邊監督,小寵物太可愛,小孩太愛牠們怎麼可能虐待,2歲時不懂愛動物曾經有不適當行為,當時都有適時教育,小動物也是生命及對待方式,目前已經5歲,行為都有節制,一逾舉就會制止。但是原po聽不進去只是因為小孩2歲的時候有前科,所以原po說他可以合理懷疑。
2,我姐前一天中午就打電話從228改到平日,我知道原po不喜歡我姐,所以想利用原po上班日,自己招待,當然也是自己打掃,也盡量在原po下班前結束,讓他不用勉強自己應付我的親戚。當然前一天也有告知原po,但他因為我單方面就同意而不悅,認為不尊重他,他認為預約要兩個禮拜前才可。
回應本文主要是想澄清
小朋友現在並不是虐待動物的魔王
過去2歲不懂事都有教育她也學習成長
雖然我姐臨時改時間,但改的那天也並沒有什麼計畫,前一天也有告知
另外,我歡迎原po的親友,在我上班時來我家玩,前一天告知就好了,基本上不用我應酬,事後有打掃好,我又何必這麼不會做人?
※ 引述《santions (黑大王)》之銘言:
: 剛吵架完
: 因為老婆的姊姊的小孩,突然說要來拜訪(外縣市)
: 我覺得,任何人,包括親友,來應該要提前預約
: 不應該臨時說要來又來,來了又玩我的狗玩的貓玩我的魚
: 我想養魚的人應該很清楚,魚缸是不隨便給人拍打
: 不隨便給人餵食飼料,不隨便給人用網子進去撈來撈去的
: 貓咪被抓被拉尾巴,是一種傷害
: 房間不想臨時被通知,還要整理
: 不想我人不再的時候,有人來
: 但他不這樣認為,他說這是我親姐姐,來玩不行嗎!!
: 他姊姊其實明知道我不喜歡臨時的探訪
: 但是小屁孩說要來玩,又哭又鬧,所以就跑去盧他妹(就是我老婆)
: 我真的覺得
: 他姊姊很不尊重人!!
: 我老婆也不尊重我!!
: 所以我超不爽的,但他無法接受我的想法
: 說我故意放大一切,說我肚量小
: 害我覺得一整個無言!!
: 難道別人不尊重我,來我家不先知會我一聲
: 然後我還要很開心的把臉伸出去給他打,很開心的歡迎她嗎?
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