[心情] 老公說要幫忙,卻總是...
討拍文
我們是雙薪,沒有跟爸媽同住,因為扛了房貸,又在4年內生了2個小孩,生活過得追趕跑
跳碰。
最近我換了工作、我老公也是。但我的新工作離家比較近,也能準時下班、所以小孩都是
我去保姆家接送。其實會換也是為了小孩考量。
回家後家事都幾乎我一手包,洗衣,曬衣,收摺。洗奶瓶,餵小孩點心,刷牙。他回來的
時間通常是8點甚至9點。有時還沒吃飯,吃飯完小孩要睡了,他會哄睡,然後我就把他的
碗盤餐具再洗洗。最後再煮隔天要帶去保母家的小孩早餐。
所以開始加班處理工作,大概是10點了(準時下班只是可以把工作帶回家)。
我們兩真的很疲憊。。。
上週才大吵一架,爆點是「我有空我會做家事、他有空就坐沙發品酒看電視」,剛剛我火
又來了,因為我還要趕工作,晚餐我煮的、吃完碗一堆要洗他說他會洗,然後小孩要睡了
,他就一溜煙跑去睡,明明今天小孩說不用陪...
想起早上請他晾衣服,他說還有什麼要「幫忙」?我很不開心、這些都是我的工作嗎?你
只要幫忙就好....我賺的錢跟你一樣多、工作也沒比較輕鬆耶....
那堆碗我絕對不會去洗的!
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