[心情] 其實不想離婚簽字
看板marriage作者kakakichen (業務做得好生活沒煩惱)時間9年前 (2014/10/10 19:32)推噓34(39推 5噓 133→)留言177則, 43人參與討論串1/2 (看更多)
跟她交往已三年多,在去年六月份登記結婚,這一年多來,我們家人對她都很滿意,
在交往時因為她原生家庭的關係,我跟她父母處得不是很愉快,去年登記結婚時也在電
話中跟她父母吵架,所以一年來,節日都是用簡訊跟岳母來聯繫,今年因為家中長輩
出了一些事,我把丫公從南部接來北部由我們倆個來照顧,所以工作、生活會比較辛苦,
也因為如此,或許剝奪了我們彼此的生活節奏。
從十月二號的爭執點,在於結婚一年多來,我一直不知她的財務狀況,在去年我把兩房
賣掉,改租三房的房子,一方面有資金比較好運用,二來我也償還了她的學貸與債務,
從那時到現在,一直想再規劃彼此的財務,畢竟錢來的容易,去的也快,兩個人如果沒
有共識或家庭規劃,我很怕有一天錢一定會花完,這兩個月來,不光吃喝就付了30萬(
半年房租105000元,我媽15萬,岳母6萬),其實我真的很害怕有天有小孩,沒錢那要怎麼
辦才好,所以那晚的口氣有點不好,我很後悔在氣頭上時說出,這樣子我怎麼敢跟妳
走下去,也許在當下,言語的傷害真的讓她心碎,她搬到另一房間睡到現在,
在這幾天我一直找她溝通,也希望她能多想想我們的未來,或許她真的累了,她說壓力
很大,想一個人自由生活,我挽留過,也告訴她,是否可以給我們彼此一次機會再走下
去,這次她真的是鐵了心選擇離開,最近一直睡睡醒醒,一直在想
到底是出了什麼問題,我真的不懂為何她拒絕了溝通,關上了心門,我很難過很自責
讓彼此走到這個地步,我該怎麼做,禮拜一答應她要去離婚簽字,但我很掙扎,我不想選
擇放棄離開,但不簽硬留在身邊,好像她會不快樂,這我也不想見到沒有笑容的她,我到
底該怎麼做,我好迷惘困惑。
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 59.125.102.36
※ 文章網址: http://www.ptt.cc/bbs/marriage/M.1412940720.A.152.html
噓
10/10 19:34, , 1F
10/10 19:34, 1F
→
10/10 19:42, , 2F
10/10 19:42, 2F
推
10/10 19:42, , 3F
10/10 19:42, 3F
推
10/10 19:48, , 4F
10/10 19:48, 4F
→
10/10 19:48, , 5F
10/10 19:48, 5F
→
10/10 19:57, , 6F
10/10 19:57, 6F
→
10/10 19:57, , 7F
10/10 19:57, 7F
→
10/10 19:58, , 8F
10/10 19:58, 8F
→
10/10 19:59, , 9F
10/10 19:59, 9F
→
10/10 20:00, , 10F
10/10 20:00, 10F
推
10/10 20:00, , 11F
10/10 20:00, 11F
→
10/10 20:00, , 12F
10/10 20:00, 12F
→
10/10 20:01, , 13F
10/10 20:01, 13F
推
10/10 20:02, , 14F
10/10 20:02, 14F
→
10/10 20:27, , 15F
10/10 20:27, 15F
→
10/10 20:28, , 16F
10/10 20:28, 16F
→
10/10 20:30, , 17F
10/10 20:30, 17F
→
10/10 20:33, , 18F
10/10 20:33, 18F
→
10/10 20:34, , 19F
10/10 20:34, 19F
推
10/10 20:47, , 20F
10/10 20:47, 20F
推
10/10 20:47, , 21F
10/10 20:47, 21F
→
10/10 20:49, , 22F
10/10 20:49, 22F
→
10/10 20:50, , 23F
10/10 20:50, 23F
→
10/10 20:56, , 24F
10/10 20:56, 24F
→
10/10 20:56, , 25F
10/10 20:56, 25F
推
10/10 21:03, , 26F
10/10 21:03, 26F
→
10/10 21:03, , 27F
10/10 21:03, 27F
推
10/10 21:06, , 28F
10/10 21:06, 28F
→
10/10 21:06, , 29F
10/10 21:06, 29F
→
10/10 21:07, , 30F
10/10 21:07, 30F
→
10/10 21:12, , 31F
10/10 21:12, 31F
推
10/10 21:13, , 32F
10/10 21:13, 32F
→
10/10 21:14, , 33F
10/10 21:14, 33F
→
10/10 21:15, , 34F
10/10 21:15, 34F
→
10/10 21:16, , 35F
10/10 21:16, 35F
→
10/10 21:17, , 36F
10/10 21:17, 36F
→
10/10 21:17, , 37F
10/10 21:17, 37F
推
10/10 21:28, , 38F
10/10 21:28, 38F
→
10/10 21:28, , 39F
10/10 21:28, 39F
還有 98 則推文
→
10/11 10:02, , 138F
10/11 10:02, 138F
噓
10/11 13:58, , 139F
10/11 13:58, 139F
推
10/11 17:12, , 140F
10/11 17:12, 140F
→
10/11 22:31, , 141F
10/11 22:31, 141F
→
10/11 22:32, , 142F
10/11 22:32, 142F
→
10/11 22:33, , 143F
10/11 22:33, 143F
→
10/11 22:34, , 144F
10/11 22:34, 144F
推
10/11 22:36, , 145F
10/11 22:36, 145F
→
10/11 22:37, , 146F
10/11 22:37, 146F
推
10/11 22:39, , 147F
10/11 22:39, 147F
→
10/11 23:45, , 148F
10/11 23:45, 148F
→
10/11 23:46, , 149F
10/11 23:46, 149F
→
10/11 23:47, , 150F
10/11 23:47, 150F
→
10/11 23:47, , 151F
10/11 23:47, 151F
→
10/11 23:48, , 152F
10/11 23:48, 152F
→
10/11 23:49, , 153F
10/11 23:49, 153F
→
10/11 23:50, , 154F
10/11 23:50, 154F
推
10/12 00:15, , 155F
10/12 00:15, 155F
→
10/12 00:16, , 156F
10/12 00:16, 156F
噓
10/12 00:29, , 157F
10/12 00:29, 157F
推
10/12 01:08, , 158F
10/12 01:08, 158F
→
10/12 06:27, , 159F
10/12 06:27, 159F
→
10/12 06:28, , 160F
10/12 06:28, 160F
→
10/12 06:29, , 161F
10/12 06:29, 161F
→
10/12 06:30, , 162F
10/12 06:30, 162F
→
10/12 06:31, , 163F
10/12 06:31, 163F
→
10/12 06:33, , 164F
10/12 06:33, 164F
推
10/12 08:58, , 165F
10/12 08:58, 165F
推
10/12 22:32, , 166F
10/12 22:32, 166F
推
10/13 17:17, , 167F
10/13 17:17, 167F
→
10/13 17:17, , 168F
10/13 17:17, 168F
→
10/13 17:18, , 169F
10/13 17:18, 169F
→
10/13 17:19, , 170F
10/13 17:19, 170F
→
10/13 17:20, , 171F
10/13 17:20, 171F
→
10/13 17:20, , 172F
10/13 17:20, 172F
→
10/13 17:20, , 173F
10/13 17:20, 173F
推
10/14 08:12, , 174F
10/14 08:12, 174F
噓
10/15 10:36, , 175F
10/15 10:36, 175F
→
10/15 10:36, , 176F
10/15 10:36, 176F
推
10/17 14:44, , 177F
10/17 14:44, 177F
討論串 (同標題文章)