[求助] 該支持嗎?
老公是職業軍人,目前年資6年半
明年想退伍和朋友開店
我不知道該不該支持
不支持原因:
1.明年小朋友要出生了,開銷變大了,又沒人可以幫我們帶孩子,不是我帶就是請保母
2.我們沒什麼現金,等於開店要用老公的退伍金至少2/3,根本沒預備金(老公的錢全卡在
投資保險上)
3.如果失敗的話,完全沒後盾,而且上哪找4萬多的薪水
可是看到老公當的那麼痛苦又很不忍,因為我如果不想做時老公都會支持我離職,所以他
希望我也應該要支持他,其實也不是要他當一輩子,我希望他可以當10年,因為退伍金又
會再多一點,而且他今年才報夜四技,念完剛好退伍,有學歷又有錢,這樣不是比較好嗎
?
但他現在覺得我都不支持他,不相信他可以養得起我們,他覺得只要他肯努力,有什麼做
不來的,我非常相信他是個願意打拼的人,我不相信的是這個大環境,我可以吃苦,但孩
子呢?一想到這個我就支持不下去了。
目前有工作,生完也可以繼續,只是不高
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之前有po過,幫公公前前後後至少50萬,又加上結婚前老公買了不少投資保單(親戚),所
以錢都卡在那,老公又死腦筋,覺得那是他和我的退休金,無論如何都不能動。可能我太
保守吧!沒現金就沒安全感。
※ 編輯: console (223.143.158.45), 09/17/2014 23:08:07
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不會比較好,只是剛好書也唸完,十年退休金也會多一點,而且也才30歲,創業還來的及
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他堂姐夫婦最近開了八方雲集,所以他也想開,但他堂姐夫目前是先請育嬰假,所以他們
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