[討論] 是嫁給一個男人,還是嫁給一個家族?
我的姊姊出嫁兩年了,她其實是個職場媽媽
白天的工作是業務,基本上是責任制
六點爬起來上班的她下班後還要趕回家煮晚餐打理家務等...
這些在男人眼裡看來都理所當然但真正經歷了也許才知道辛苦之處
誰會想要回家了還像在職場一樣有做不完的事?
我光是想像他的生活就害怕步入婚姻
重點是她因為顧慮婆婆感受放棄陞遷外派的機會
畢竟女人結婚了就是要以家庭為優先哪?
我每次看姊姊難得休假都還要陪婆婆早起去爬山、或去公園一起健走
不得不佩服她兩年來沒停過的毅力
因為姐夫的工作時常要離開台灣,所以陪伴婆婆的擔子也落在姊姊身上
其實我很想給姊姊一點方法讓她的生活可以輕鬆一點點
但是實在又想不到什麼好建議
我是在看到一篇文章後,對姊姊的婚姻生活感到感嘆
也許婚姻的幸福如人飲水,冷暖自知
但是把她的辛苦看進眼裡卻一點也幫不上忙...
http://womany.net/read/article/5286
很佩服這個作者結婚後還有「做自己」的勇氣
雖然狀況不完全相同,但我相信晚輩就算再怎麼孝順,都還是需要私密的自我空間
我想每個女人,以及男人,都應該擁有這樣的觀念
家庭,不應該只是女人甜蜜的負荷
大家是不是也有這樣的困擾呢?
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