Re: [婚前] 結婚好嗎?如何調適婚後的生活?
※ 引述《melodypiano (鍵盤婆婆)》之銘言:
: ※ 引述《cadocado (柯瑪莉)》之銘言:
: : 標題: [討論] 如何調適婚後的大大小小爭吵?
: : 時間: Wed Aug 27 16:01:29 2014
: : 看著身邊已婚的朋友,每次約出來見面就開始抱怨老公
: : 說老公完全婚前一個樣,婚後一個樣的最佳代表
: : 每天下班回家就是懶散的躺在沙發上,講話又愛理不理
: : 生活中大大小小吵架不斷,一見面就想吵架。
: : 朋友說她雖然知道老公不是不愛她,只是結婚之後整個變懶了...
: : 真的是這樣嗎?婚姻走到最後都變成維持就好嗎?
: : 所以想來問問大家,如何熬過以及調適生活中柴米油鹽醬醋茶的爭吵?
: : 並且繼續和另一半走下去呢?
: : 身邊有好多不滿意婚姻的例子,希望自己不要對未來結婚這麼害怕...
結婚 好嗎???
一百年結婚....
我老婆是覺得 似乎沒什麼改變..........
婚前 婚後 其實生活沒很大改變.....
婚前 她沒談過戀愛 沒出過國....
婚後 基本上 我應該每年會帶她出國
每年結婚都年會買黃金送她
兩人住....所以沒什麼 很大的差異...
只是有時候 可能我小氣一點吧...........
我自己承認..........
這一兩年偶爾會被我老婆念 該買台BMW才對(賓士太普通了...就算了)
因為 我的車子 其實蠻舊的
又是台爛車....
我金錢觀念 其實蠻死的
不喜歡花些 沒價值的東西..........
假使沒貸款買得起n輛 沒房貸............
我也 不太會考慮那東西............
我覺得 舊車 可以開就很好了啊........
害我最近常覺得自己是否太小氣了............
其他 沒多大問題
結婚以後 賺錢會變越來越快
這是最大的感覺吧....
沒任何 大的吵架.................
就這樣.............
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